well the surgury went good.... however my dad had a major heart attack. i spent the night in the hospital with him last night. he is now in critical but stable condition. just home to show and relax for a minute then i will be right back up there. i will keep everyone up to date. if anything happens hopefully everything will be ok. if your religous keep my dad in your prayers. 
God, grant me the serinity
to accept the things I can not change
the courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference