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You are such a sweetie

Sometimes people like your boss and coworkers, help people like you make the world a better place. Why? Because it makes you realize how horrible others can be, and makes you want to step up and change the environment around you. Therefore, spreading the love, and making everyone feel like doing the same. Good luck.

Thank you so much for the great line. If I get the confidence I will definitly use it.

Awwwwe....you're so sweet! Thank you darlin'!

kids are so sensative. especially at that age. i had very similar problem with my family that your brother does [minus the disease bit]. i failed classes, was always in detention, running away, doing drugs [not at 9, more like 12], fist-fighting with my mom, having screaming matches with my dad, getiing smacked around by basically everyone, including my sister. [cause they didnt know how to deal with me] and that was the hardest part. i didnt have a comrad. i think thats a big chunk of what your brothers missing. he doesnt have a comrad at all. all you need to really do is spend time with him, not focussing on his problems, but focussing on his strengths. hes got some, right? im sure inside all of that anger, resenment and pain, theres just a scared, sad little boy that needs to be loved. take him to a movie of his choice. sneak him in if its rated R. take him to do something that hed like that your mom wouldnt nessisarily approve of. not anything shed be pissed at you for doing, but something he doesnt normally get to do. hes probably hurt b/c he feels like youre abandoning him, and if hes anything like me when i was that age, he adores, admires, and even sometimes emulates you. just remember the role of the big brother. i sound preachy. im sorry. i always just feel for the bitter younger sibling, cause i was one. sometimes still am. things will work out somehow. dont stress too much. and youre not a bad person. its easier to detatch than to deal. thats all