Hey Ya'll!
I had a random crazy thing happen to me n the gf last night while out on bar row. It was so weird I just need to rant a bit about what's really ugly.
I'm a good looking guy, not to be ass about it but I am, people notice and occasionally it brings on some weird shit. I was out with the gf and one of her friends last night. From the minute I walked into this place (I should mention the bar was really small and we sat adjacent to this woman and her friend) I was spotted by a large unattractive older woman that stared at me the whole time. She waved me over multiple times and was really trying to get my attention short of jumping up and down. I motioned back that I wasn't interested, made clear I was with my gf, and then ignored her. I treat people decently and don't like to be a dick unless I have to, manners are a two way street, this gal had none.
She persisted so I finally went to see what her deal was. She shows me her phone and it says, 'your gf is ugly, you can do so much better. Come talk to me.' I thought that was funny, mostly because it was absurd. I sat back down with the gf.
This chick comes over sits next to me shows me her phone again, it's more your gf is ugly bull shit. I tell her she's wrong and to leave me alone. She persists and starts repeating herself. First saying 'she's ugly,' then 'do you like ugly women,' and then 'are you gay?' Nothing I said made a difference, even when I stopped being polite and told her to fuck off. If we'd been in the states I would have slapped her. The owner even came over to kick this bitch out and she wouldn't budge. We'd finished our drinks by then so we left.
Thankfully I ran into the Jiujitsu crowd at the next bar and we blew it off and all enjoyed ourselves. Crazy showed up but just lingered on a back wall with her friend before leaving. I sincerely hope I never see her again!!!
Never in my life have I encountered someone so blatantly rude, unreasonable, or simply put thoroughly ugly. It was shocking to me because it was so illogical.
It upset my a gf a fair bit, quite understandably, and we talked about it. She told me she has felt like she didn't deserve me because I'm handsome a time or two and has had some misgivings because of it. In part due to some of her previous relationships. I set her straight on that bullshit, I'm the sole judge of what constitutes 'deserving' or 'good enough.' The fact we're still dating means she unequivocally is.
Which is what bothered me the most out of this event. We culturally base a great deal off appearance. First impressions are huge, yet they are ironically not just lacking but rather entirely devoid of substance unless you're Sherlock Holmes. There's this ridiculous concept out there about a fucking illusionary ten scale that suggests we can only get someone close to us or lower. Well FUCK that! Only thing that matters, do you find that other person attractive? Do they find you attractive? If the answer is yes that's the ONLY thing that matters in my opinion. End rant.
I know most of you SG's and Hopefuls deal with this kind of shit a hell of a lot more frequently as you model for us. Some of ya'll rant about it on occasion too and I get why. So I just want to say thanks. The haters are the real ugly ones. I respect the risk ya'll take putting yourselves out there. There's much more to beauty than the narrow view pop culture and industry project. It takes courage to be comfy in your own ink and skin. Whether you're wrapped like an Eskimo or wearing a simple smile how you conduct yourself is what makes you classy, trashy, or beautiful. This goes doubly for the gutsy Hopefuls that most likely won't make it but are here anyway.
Stay awesome ya'll and don't let the ugly people in your life get to you. Dumb ugly cunts will kill you faster than cigarets if you let them. Don't waste any more time on em than ya need to.
