So here's a question for all of you.
There's this girl I went on a date with and is not half integrated into my social group, this was the first girl back in September, we hooked up the night we met (no sex but forplay) then went on one date, we hung out multiple times after that, but every time after the first date she was cold, it was really weird, she kept agreeing to come hang out with me but then was disinterested. Anyway it was clear it wasn't going to happen and a friend told me she wasn't looking for anything.
We hadn't seen each other for 3 months then she came to a gig last weekend, we chatted a lot and stuck by each other all night, made me realise me feelings for her were still there, she left without anything happening. So I was just going through cards on Tinder (a dating app, yes I'm sad like that) and I saw her on there and so I'm debating my course of action.
Do I tapped the liked button on tinder and see what she does?
Should I ask her out again directly?
Or should I wait till were both at a gig again and see if anything happens then? (This is an option because she's coming to a gig on Friday I invited her too, but I don't if that's because my friends will be there.)
I really don't want to make things weird between us again, but I still get anxious around her and would hate to waste the opportunity if she is now ready for something, before she had just moved here starting her PhD at uni and wasn't really looking for anything, but does her presence on Tinder mean she is now? I really don't want to make things weird between us again, but I think it would bug me even more if I didn't go for it.
I think I just answered my own question at the end there but would still like to hear thoughts about the best way to proceed. I'm so hopeless :P
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