this is me venting about a fucking ass hole who calls himself a friend. if i am the one in the wrong here....let me know. he just boils my blood!
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: my boyfriend asked me to marry him last weekend!!!! so now we are engaged
Steege79: um, time out!
Steege79: how long you been with him?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: i dated him 2 years ago for 6 months, then we grew together as best friends, now we havbe been seriously bf/gf for five months
Steege79: no offense, but slow downnnnn
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: so ive known the man for a while as a lover, and a best friend
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: trust me, this is a good thing
Steege79: I've heard that before..
Steege79: just make sure you know what your doin...... don't want to see you get hurt
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: ok, i thank you for your concern but i really do know this man inside and out, and he knows me as well. we have been through more than i have ever been through with anyone and always seem to come out on top
Steege79: ok, you could have said that - the attitude..lol
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: no attitude, i just felt like it needed to be said that way
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: lol u always thought that about me. how could u possibly feel that there is any sort of attitude over aim??
Steege79: um, can it be done, seen and done it before :-)
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: lol
Steege79: I just want you to be careful, thats all, sorry
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: and i understand, and thats why i thanked you
Steege79: I had a friend marry a guy she was friends with for 4 years before they dated for a year and a half
Steege79: he became really jealous after they got married, very controlling, and beat the shit out of her one day because she went shopping with her friend (who was a guy)
Steege79: she basically said the same thing you did.... don't mean to compare, you know, but it still brought back the past.. ya know?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: ok man...this is prolly why u think i have an attitude...because u tell me terrible things such as this and in your mind you think they will help me...but it really doesnt
Steege79: whoa... I didn't mean it like that, I was explaining why I was being protective... don't take it like that..lol
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: why cant you just be happy for someone?? seriously? life is full of taking chances. what do you want me to do since you told me that? cancel the whole thing and live in my room?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: sweety listen i really do thank you
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: but stuff like that only brings a person down
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: and its depressing
Steege79: no offense, but life isn't a fairytale.
Steege79: and I'm sorry it came off that way
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: trust me..omg trust me
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: did u know i lost everything with my last relationship?
Steege79: yea, but do you want that to happen again?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: my house, my job, my money, my heart, my life....
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: no thats why i am doing it right this time
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: listen, you dont know anything of what my life has been like. you also dont know anything of how dave and my life has come about...so instead of being negative you could try being supportive when someone comes to you and tells you of such wonderful news on how their life is turning out for the better despite everything that was terrible in their past
i honestly dont know why i posted this...i guess it is because he made me so angry that i thought it needed to be shared and read by someone else. i know i should not let it get to me but it does, how could a friend that you've known for 6 years turn around and be so harsh and not even a tiny bit happy? AHH i dont care. whatever...ill delete it in an hour anyway.
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: my boyfriend asked me to marry him last weekend!!!! so now we are engaged
Steege79: um, time out!
Steege79: how long you been with him?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: i dated him 2 years ago for 6 months, then we grew together as best friends, now we havbe been seriously bf/gf for five months
Steege79: no offense, but slow downnnnn
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: so ive known the man for a while as a lover, and a best friend
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: trust me, this is a good thing
Steege79: I've heard that before..
Steege79: just make sure you know what your doin...... don't want to see you get hurt
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: ok, i thank you for your concern but i really do know this man inside and out, and he knows me as well. we have been through more than i have ever been through with anyone and always seem to come out on top
Steege79: ok, you could have said that - the attitude..lol
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: no attitude, i just felt like it needed to be said that way
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: lol u always thought that about me. how could u possibly feel that there is any sort of attitude over aim??
Steege79: um, can it be done, seen and done it before :-)
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: lol
Steege79: I just want you to be careful, thats all, sorry
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: and i understand, and thats why i thanked you
Steege79: I had a friend marry a guy she was friends with for 4 years before they dated for a year and a half
Steege79: he became really jealous after they got married, very controlling, and beat the shit out of her one day because she went shopping with her friend (who was a guy)
Steege79: she basically said the same thing you did.... don't mean to compare, you know, but it still brought back the past.. ya know?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: ok man...this is prolly why u think i have an attitude...because u tell me terrible things such as this and in your mind you think they will help me...but it really doesnt
Steege79: whoa... I didn't mean it like that, I was explaining why I was being protective... don't take it like that..lol
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: why cant you just be happy for someone?? seriously? life is full of taking chances. what do you want me to do since you told me that? cancel the whole thing and live in my room?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: sweety listen i really do thank you
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: but stuff like that only brings a person down
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: and its depressing
Steege79: no offense, but life isn't a fairytale.
Steege79: and I'm sorry it came off that way
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: trust me..omg trust me
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: did u know i lost everything with my last relationship?
Steege79: yea, but do you want that to happen again?
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: my house, my job, my money, my heart, my life....
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: no thats why i am doing it right this time
oINtUiTiVeMiNDo: listen, you dont know anything of what my life has been like. you also dont know anything of how dave and my life has come about...so instead of being negative you could try being supportive when someone comes to you and tells you of such wonderful news on how their life is turning out for the better despite everything that was terrible in their past
i honestly dont know why i posted this...i guess it is because he made me so angry that i thought it needed to be shared and read by someone else. i know i should not let it get to me but it does, how could a friend that you've known for 6 years turn around and be so harsh and not even a tiny bit happy? AHH i dont care. whatever...ill delete it in an hour anyway.
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maybe it is just the angry italian in me lol