FIGHTING SUCKS...I HATE IT...WHEN SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT IS PISSED AT YOU....I SHUT DOWN...CUZ I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT!!! I'VE BEEN LIKE THIS MY WHOLE LIFE...NO MATTER MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION...IF I CAN'T WALK AWAY...I SIT SILENTLY...SOME PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS...AND THAT MAKES IT WORSE. HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN TO SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE TALKING ABOUT THINGS AND DON'T LIKE FIGHTING? IT'S HARD...IT FUCKING SUCKS!!! HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN TO SOMEONE THAT WHEN THEY DRINK IT SEEMS TO YOU THAT THEY ARE A DIFFERENT PERSON..EVEN IF THEY DON'T SEE IT THAT WAY!!! FUCK IS ALL I CAN SAY!!! 
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yourdaddy:
Talk it out. It is hard at times but some times the other doesn't know that they are pissing you off. Once you have said something then ether they don't do it any more or they explane why and you understand, then everything works better. But it all starts with talking!!! 
punkndrublic:
im the same way, ive been married for 5 years and its still like that. when i shut down like that he aways yells more... sucks, but thats me... sorry dont have any advise! 