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so, sg is going to become the dumping ground for al my issues over my ex! She doesn't know I've joined again, or my username.

Basically she pulled the can't handle a relationship card - that said, she's only 21 and was a couple of weeks out of a 2 year relationship when we met in November.

I did argee, the timing was lousy. I'd just moved back to town, lots on at work, and a bit skint. She was out of this relationship, lots of university work, a need to be single...

So, we had a pretty intense couple of months, and had a lot of fun, but just a little too much stress for it to work.

We broke up in the morning, ended up in bed that night. I drove her home, that's the last time I saw her. About 10 days ago. We are having a couple of weeks of not seeing each other. I'm finding weird not seeing her - we are over for now, that's clear, so I don't see a problem with hanging out, or going for coffee. But she says she needs a break, saying everything will be fine after that. We even decided after this point we might keep sleeping together occassionally. Doubt it'll work, but just to illustrate there was a lot right with us.

I'm living by myself, recently back in town, and with her gone, it's a bit quiet around here at times. Don't know how much that is me missing her, or missing having someone.

I bumped into a girl who i kinda knew at school - she's a couple of years below me, but she was always sweet. I didn't recognise her, it had been 12 years! She was working at this bar, and looking really good. That was saturday, and we swapped numbers, agreeing to meet up on Tuesday.

So we went drinking, and drinking, and drinking. Talking bollocks til the bars closed, then when the clubs closed we bought so drink to take back to mine.

We hadn't been particularly flirtatious and by 4am at mine I figured we were just going to be platonic. We'd spoken about past relationships, and at this point I was talking about my ex in detail.

drunk and exhausted we decided to crash out around 6am. We're in bed and she asks "are you comfortable with this" in reference to my whinging about my ex. And say I'm fine, maybe misunderstanding why she was asking, and she starts kissing me. No problem there, she's a great looking girl, and we got on well.

However, when she says "we should have sex' I backed away a little, she back tracked a little, saying it didn't have to be now.

I guess actually sleeping with someone is the final nail in the coffin for the last relationship, and I don't know if I'm ready to do it yet.

It's only going to get more complicated later in the week, when I'm meeting another girl, who I'm sure is after more than friendship. We were seeing each other a little about 10 years ago, nothing much though, She keeps sending me pictures of her and late night drunken text messages. But, beyond my issues, she's got a boyfriend of 5 years, and I don't want to get involved in that.

Both the girls have the same name, just to make it even worse!

So, come on girls, tell me what to do!