So, i have a question... How are we as guys supposed to know to go up and talk to a girl? honestly, at this point i've become overly cynical and jaded about meeting girls at bars or clubs, mainly because of countless rejections and the fact that i dont go out looking to 'hook up' with people, not to mention, apparently when i just randomly say hi to someone, it comes off at creepy or something. (is there some sick, sad desperation in my eyes?)
anyway, i guess i'm just curious to how were supposed to know when the 'hot girl on the other side of the room' wants someone to at least just strike up conversation. i mean, is there a code or something? because PLEASE let me know what to look for.
then again, it could just be me.
just a few thoughts.
-Wm.
anyway, i guess i'm just curious to how were supposed to know when the 'hot girl on the other side of the room' wants someone to at least just strike up conversation. i mean, is there a code or something? because PLEASE let me know what to look for.
then again, it could just be me.
just a few thoughts.
-Wm.
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If you want something, go for it. The worst you can get is rejection. And anyone can get over that, right?
BTW, I don't associate bars and clubs with quality "hook ups". I always reject in that setting. I suggest finding somewhere else.