i think i am going to break up with my girlfriend of three years.
it has been a long drawn out thing. and i have not done it, although i have
thought about it for awile. there are are few reasons why i have waited...
some good some bad....but at least i know what they are now.
but the point is. i think that it needs to happen.
im a little scared. what if im not doing the right thing. but i think i am.
even though being alone scares me. being a psychologist i can tell you
that is transference from my mother. she is deadly scared to be alone.
but see i CAN be alone..i was single for 2 years before meeting her.
its just the initial shock, the initial morming jitter thing, am i doing the right thing? sort of thing.
i guess i will find out.
or maybe i wont.
maybe i will wake up tomorrow and be magically happy.
i suppose we will find out.
whats the worst way you have broken upw ith someone?
whats the worst way that someone has broken up with you?
it has been a long drawn out thing. and i have not done it, although i have
thought about it for awile. there are are few reasons why i have waited...
some good some bad....but at least i know what they are now.
but the point is. i think that it needs to happen.
im a little scared. what if im not doing the right thing. but i think i am.
even though being alone scares me. being a psychologist i can tell you
that is transference from my mother. she is deadly scared to be alone.
but see i CAN be alone..i was single for 2 years before meeting her.
its just the initial shock, the initial morming jitter thing, am i doing the right thing? sort of thing.
i guess i will find out.
or maybe i wont.
maybe i will wake up tomorrow and be magically happy.
i suppose we will find out.
whats the worst way you have broken upw ith someone?
whats the worst way that someone has broken up with you?
hardluck5413:
By what you are writing, I think you need to do it. Break it off. Follow your heart. It's the shittiest feeling but you need to do what is best for you and what makes you happy.
optic16241:
whatever the decision, be strong.