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Am I the Only One?

Sep 2, 2014
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Am I the only one who doesn't like drinking?

I have never liked alcohol. This past week I was invited out by a friend to join a group of her friends, some of whom I didn't know very well. I was the only one who didn't drink, and some of them got pretty drunk. I don't care about that. because respect should go both ways, and if that's what they want to do, great. I like a lot of them and enjoy our conversations, but I got the sense, as the night wore on and the liquor flowed more freely, that I was not as much "fun" as they wanted me to be...They got louder and I grew more quiet. I do enjoy most of those people and would like to see them again, and I wonder if they will want me around again if they perceive me as...well...boring!

I was a little concerned at the time, but today I feel - without being arrogant, I hope - that I am who I am, and if people don't like it, then tough shit!! If I'm to be rejected, then at least I'll be true to myself. :)

I was just curious if anyone out there had any insights or opinions on this!

-David

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skella:
I find this happening a lot. I don't drink at all, and I find that a lot of times my friends don't even think to invite me places because they don't think I'll have fun, when in fact I have no problem being with people who aren't drinking. 
Sep 10, 2014
portraitguytwo:
Thank you for your comment.  I hadn't considered it from the perspective you described. I agree, I don't have a problem with them drinking.  I have always been concerned that they won't invite me because they are concerned I will spoil THEIR  good time.   Hmmmm. What to do, what to do?
Sep 10, 2014

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