Done crying done feeling sorry for myself. I've always been a strong person so I must pick myself up and move on. I have not talked to Sean since Sunday probably for the best. His pics are in a box. I am going on Vacation next month. It was suppose to be our anniversary trip, instead it will be a trip to heal .All by...
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My poly partner of 5 years broke up with me today . I just want to curl into a ball and die .
He said Im sorry lets just be friends . Fuck that you ripped out my heart.
He said Im sorry lets just be friends . Fuck that you ripped out my heart.
brotherheathen:
That blows. If you feel like sharing, may I ask what the nature of the relationship was?
I was in a poly relationship for about 10 years. I had one primary and secondaries who drifted in and out of my life, lasting only a few months at a time before they wandered on to other loves and other lives. I'm still close friends with one of the secondaries, a friendship I'll continue to cherish for as long as I live, I suspect. Another has died and left us all a few months ago, a hurt which I know will fade with time but never go away entirely.
In the end, I left the partner of 10 years, for a lot of reasons -- some good and some purely selfish, to be honest.
I don't know what his reasons were, but relationships come and go.
I nearly lost my current (an one hopes, permanent) relationship last night (still am not certain I haven't, but things are looking up).
It's gonna hurt for a long long time. Beyond thinking about you and hoping for the best (or better), I don't know what I can do from 2000+ miles away. But if you can think of anything, just ask.
I was in a poly relationship for about 10 years. I had one primary and secondaries who drifted in and out of my life, lasting only a few months at a time before they wandered on to other loves and other lives. I'm still close friends with one of the secondaries, a friendship I'll continue to cherish for as long as I live, I suspect. Another has died and left us all a few months ago, a hurt which I know will fade with time but never go away entirely.
In the end, I left the partner of 10 years, for a lot of reasons -- some good and some purely selfish, to be honest.
I don't know what his reasons were, but relationships come and go.
I nearly lost my current (an one hopes, permanent) relationship last night (still am not certain I haven't, but things are looking up).
It's gonna hurt for a long long time. Beyond thinking about you and hoping for the best (or better), I don't know what I can do from 2000+ miles away. But if you can think of anything, just ask.
This morning Im getting ready for work and I couldnt find my regular undies. All I could find was my frilly ones , you know the ones for the special occasions with your loved one. I was going to wear my red suit today and decided to wear my red undies as well to match . I felt sort of empowered by my clothing choices...
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Going to get new Tattoo today for Birthday which is coming up soon. Will try to post pics if I can.
Sincerely
Cheri
Sincerely
Cheri
Must apply for another job . I hate my company with a passion now and I must get out.
Love Cheri
Love Cheri
Things that bug the shit out of me.
So today Im coming up the stairs to my crack head apartment building and to my horror I see one of my neighbors smoking pot . Thats not what bothered me , what bothered me is she was doing this in front of her kid. She had the bong out and everything. When the boy was trying...
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So today Im coming up the stairs to my crack head apartment building and to my horror I see one of my neighbors smoking pot . Thats not what bothered me , what bothered me is she was doing this in front of her kid. She had the bong out and everything. When the boy was trying...
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brotherheathen:
I don't know about there, but I know that in some of the poorer counties in NC that some people see children as a welfare check. Need a higher income, have another kid.
For those who think I'm an ass for thinking that... I used to work at the Salvation Army. Part of their mission is to be a charity to folks in need. Our location would help with filling out forms for food stamps, making sure people know what help was available, etc.
I overheard, on several occasions, with my own ears (as opposed to being told by someone else), conversations among poor women where they literally discussed how excited they were about their upcoming child, because it would mean a larger welfare check. And then another woman commenting on how she needed to have herself another baby to get some more welfare money.
So, not only do stupid people breed, we PAY some of them to breed.
Of course, if they were less stupid, they'd realize the kid costs them more than the welfare increase, but we did mention the stupid part, right?
By the way, your neighbor is the type of person I'd actually call child services on.
For those who think I'm an ass for thinking that... I used to work at the Salvation Army. Part of their mission is to be a charity to folks in need. Our location would help with filling out forms for food stamps, making sure people know what help was available, etc.
I overheard, on several occasions, with my own ears (as opposed to being told by someone else), conversations among poor women where they literally discussed how excited they were about their upcoming child, because it would mean a larger welfare check. And then another woman commenting on how she needed to have herself another baby to get some more welfare money.
So, not only do stupid people breed, we PAY some of them to breed.
Of course, if they were less stupid, they'd realize the kid costs them more than the welfare increase, but we did mention the stupid part, right?
By the way, your neighbor is the type of person I'd actually call child services on.
Saw The Last Legion today. Decent . Have to work tomorrow. Bastards.
Love Cheri
Love Cheri
Welcome to Cafe Mon Cheri
Sit back have a cup of chai , maybe some fruit slices and bask in daylight
Love Cheri
Sit back have a cup of chai , maybe some fruit slices and bask in daylight
Love Cheri
brotherheathen:
I just noticed your "current crush" comment in your profile.
What does being in high school have to do with it? I've had some pretty huge crushes over the years, many more after high school than in or before.
What do you consider a crush?
What does being in high school have to do with it? I've had some pretty huge crushes over the years, many more after high school than in or before.
What do you consider a crush?
For your listening pleasure.
Love you Ken and Sean
Kisses Cheri
Love you Ken and Sean
Kisses Cheri
Had court for Kens dads estate yesterday. It took all day long and we have three months before we find out the decision of the judge. Short version of story his sister is trying to take everything. Its a nightmare really and I hope its over really soon . Went to this place today http://www.pioneer-arizona.com/
you should check it out if you ever visit Arizona...
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brotherheathen:
Yeah, I guess you got an inkling from my post a few weeks ago that my girlfriend has dealt with similar pettiness related to the death of her father a few years ago.
I hope the judge is kind to you guys.
I hope the judge is kind to you guys.
I am sorry for the way your life has been turned on end but allowing someone else's actions affect us (as people) for too long is no way to live.
I forced myself to forgive someone not because they deserved it but because I deserved to be free of the hurt they caused. It was a completely different situation but hanging onto negativity gives you wrinkles.
Stay Strong & Loving!
OMG, have fun in SF. Be sure to bring a jacket.