Well I only have a few minutes so I will give ya the cliff notes version of the past weekend....my "baby" turned 4 yrs old this weekend! Holy crap!! Didn't I just give birth to her yesterday??? We did the Libby Lu thing on Friday, had her birthday party at the bounce house place on Saturday, did the family dinner thing on Sunday and took her to Islands of Adventure and Universal on Monday...WHEW!!! What a bust weekend. I was sooooo glad to be able to spend so much time with her this weekend since I haven't been able to see her for but a couple hours at a time every other day or so since I left home. I am still trying DESPERATELY to get my mom's house live-able for the both of us...what a fucking nightmare project that has been!!! But things are leveling out with me and the husband. We have been going to couple's counseling and working on mending our friendship and trying to maintain a good, loving relationship for our daughter and ourselves. We actually had a really good weekend. So mom's house aside things "feel" a little better. I hope it stays that way. 
anyways I'm glad things are starting to calm down for you, and I hope they continue to get better, you seem like a wonderful mother(a dead sexy one at that
I'll be in touch
-Brandon