I got my package from Booty Parlor today. Woo Hoo! It looks so pretty, I don't even want to open it (but I will!) 
Now I have a dilema for those of you who care to hear (not too many but it will make me feel better if I get it off my chest..)
The day before Valentine's, my ex came to my job with some sad sob story, saying that of all the people he knows, that I'm the one person that he doesn't want to lose touch with. Yada Yada Yada... So being me, tell him that we can be friends. Now he's asking to come over and hang out (he typically equates "hanging out" to "getting some"). Now I have a problem.
Now, he doesn't know that I'm bi (when I was with him, I was soley with and into him. There were times when we "took a break" where I started dating one of my best friends. That didn't go well, she dumped me, we stopped talking and I just told him "I just don't want to be friends with her anymore" That was all, I didn't go into it too much more.).
Now, my dilema is:
1)Do I tell him that he's a horribly bad fuck (true)
2)I prefer the girls over him (true also but I liked girls way before him... and to be honest, I wouldn't say no to the right guy as long as he could accept me..)
3)Do I lie and tell him I have other plans (which has worked in the past... I think my record on that was 3 months... but I really was busy at the time.)
Now, just to stir the pot a bit more, he's Jamaican, and they don't take kindly to anyone who isn't 100% hetro. So I know if I tell him #1, he's going to rage. It would fuck with him big time (but I'm not really in the caring mood about now... he never cares about what I want so it's fair, no?). I'm thinking that it would be just the thing he needed to hear. But I don't want to be totally heartless... There's something that should have told him that I was bi (especially when I kissed my friend in front of him. Again,we were "taking a break..").
I don't know...I'm just rattling off...
I'm pretty much a truthful person, what you see is what you get... but now I'm wondering if by not telling him before hand, if I was being dishonest... And he considers himself dynamite in the sack (lie...), would it be so detrimental to him to know the truth? I'm just lost in deep thought.
Oh well... time to see what Santa brought me!
Laters!
Now I have a dilema for those of you who care to hear (not too many but it will make me feel better if I get it off my chest..)
The day before Valentine's, my ex came to my job with some sad sob story, saying that of all the people he knows, that I'm the one person that he doesn't want to lose touch with. Yada Yada Yada... So being me, tell him that we can be friends. Now he's asking to come over and hang out (he typically equates "hanging out" to "getting some"). Now I have a problem.
Now, he doesn't know that I'm bi (when I was with him, I was soley with and into him. There were times when we "took a break" where I started dating one of my best friends. That didn't go well, she dumped me, we stopped talking and I just told him "I just don't want to be friends with her anymore" That was all, I didn't go into it too much more.).
Now, my dilema is:
1)Do I tell him that he's a horribly bad fuck (true)
2)I prefer the girls over him (true also but I liked girls way before him... and to be honest, I wouldn't say no to the right guy as long as he could accept me..)
3)Do I lie and tell him I have other plans (which has worked in the past... I think my record on that was 3 months... but I really was busy at the time.)
Now, just to stir the pot a bit more, he's Jamaican, and they don't take kindly to anyone who isn't 100% hetro. So I know if I tell him #1, he's going to rage. It would fuck with him big time (but I'm not really in the caring mood about now... he never cares about what I want so it's fair, no?). I'm thinking that it would be just the thing he needed to hear. But I don't want to be totally heartless... There's something that should have told him that I was bi (especially when I kissed my friend in front of him. Again,we were "taking a break..").
I don't know...I'm just rattling off...
I'm pretty much a truthful person, what you see is what you get... but now I'm wondering if by not telling him before hand, if I was being dishonest... And he considers himself dynamite in the sack (lie...), would it be so detrimental to him to know the truth? I'm just lost in deep thought.
Oh well... time to see what Santa brought me!
Laters!