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are "like" just participation trophies?

May 4, 2015
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As usual I want to start by thanking all of you. Yes guys and gals alike. It takes all of us to make this the greatest place. All of the models work so hard to give us incredibly sexy images to stir our inner animal. It takes tons of courage. So for that I want to thank you. Mwah. Guys keep it up, cuz the ladies love us too!!!

So with that said I've noticed some things about "likes". I see lots of one word comments like "hot" " gorgeous" "yes". If two words get used it goes "your hot" (grammar error intended) "nice tits" "hot pussy". I'm sure there are models that DO actually appreciate that but I feel like there are way better ways to write these compliments. Ways to convey our desire or pleasure. At the same time giving the recipient a feeling of worth and pride. So I set out to change how I commented. I have been making sure to be flirty funny witty and sincere. Since then I have gotten a way different response from some of the models. As time has gone on I've noticed that I spend a lot of time writing these compliments or jokes. Making sure that I don't say the same thing all the girls. Trying to let the moment drive the words from my mind. Putting thought into how I want you to feel after you read it. Yet I see many times I just get a like. But the guy who said "nice tits" got a like too. Then I think maybe I will get a mention or even post on my page. But it doesn't happen. I know life isn't fair and I don't expect that. I also know that the inbox for you models blows up and it takes lots of time to mention everyone. So I don't think any of you will reply to everyone. I guess I hoped to stand out some by giving more of myself than something topical. It is starting to feel like a lot of models are just saying "thanks for showing up". None of this is going to stop me from telling all of you how you how you shake me to the bone. I just was hoping that models who don't like the "nice tits" comments would stop rewarding behavior they wish would change and spot light the fans who truly give appreciation. I know you all deserve to feel awesome about your material and posts. Please don't get me wrong, I'm all about talk dirty to me but if erotica was written like most men talk here, it would be a short book repeating the same 6 words. The story of O would suck. (Anne rice wrote erotica way before 50 shades)

Thank you and I will get back to

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playforlife:
@maina yeah Anne Rice is a fabulous writer. After the vampire chronicals I found the story of O and exit to eden
May 4, 2015
maina:
Oh yes I love the community! And all the amazing open members on it, like you! :)  Have a nice evening sweety!
May 4, 2015

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