So it's all perspective. All of it!
Talked with a new close friend tonight, discovered that our time together has been (or seemed) different to each of us. My life is only marginally structured, with work being the major structuring factor..I am busy, but most of the things I'm busy with are things that could get done now or later, and probably be classified under "leisure". His time, however, is filled to the brim with things that have to get done, and have to get done within reasonable time.
I'm honored that he's made time for me, and a little sheepish that I've failed to recognize just how cool that is.
We have, since we met, done BIG THINGS...a weekend here, an entire evening there, a couple times a week. I like those times..but I've lately begun to crave dessert and some chatting, some snugglin', over six hours of activity..
It's all perspective, I say. And I appear to be gaining some of it.
Talked with a new close friend tonight, discovered that our time together has been (or seemed) different to each of us. My life is only marginally structured, with work being the major structuring factor..I am busy, but most of the things I'm busy with are things that could get done now or later, and probably be classified under "leisure". His time, however, is filled to the brim with things that have to get done, and have to get done within reasonable time.
I'm honored that he's made time for me, and a little sheepish that I've failed to recognize just how cool that is.
We have, since we met, done BIG THINGS...a weekend here, an entire evening there, a couple times a week. I like those times..but I've lately begun to crave dessert and some chatting, some snugglin', over six hours of activity..
It's all perspective, I say. And I appear to be gaining some of it.
pinkokitty:
(clarifies "over six hours of activity" to "instead of six hours of activity")