Well I decided something the other day, I am having trouble finding girls who's sexual fantasies evolve. I mean am I the only perv here who has gotten kinkier as I've gotten older? Or am I the only one who is willing to openly talk about it? It seems every girl I know (whether I want anything romantically to do with them or not) is into one minor fetish and never gets tired of it. I think I have sexual ADD.
I don't really think it is a matter of needing new girls, I just need one girl who is constantly wanting to try something different. That is the key to preventing cheating in a relationship I think. If sex were always different and being changed up, no one would cheat to get something different.
This may sound weird also, but has anyone noticed girls fall into 2 categories when it comes to having sex with someone new? Maybe there is a minor third here, but 1.) They jump right into bed and have no problem or moral issue with it. 2.) They make you wait forever. I wanna reinstate the 3rd date rule.
For those of you who don't know the third date rule, the theory behind it is if you get through 3 dates successfully, you spend the night together. This seems like a good middle ground between the two. I, of course, had to eliminate the category of "Won't have sex with you" simply because the situation I was talking about assumed the girl wanted to sleep with you in the first place.
This whole idea of calling people sluts is annoying in itself as well. I mean sure if you are the town bicycle that may be a bit much, but it seems like the bar is set for a really low number these days. A girl has sex with like 5 people at my age and suddenly she's a sure lay.
Girls who engage in friends with benefits type relationships are also considered sluts. Why can't it be that there are two people who have fun together and occasionally stuff happens? Why is that a bad thing. Better one of your friends than some random STD infested girl from a bar that doesn't even tell you her name before she's riding you.
I don't really think it is a matter of needing new girls, I just need one girl who is constantly wanting to try something different. That is the key to preventing cheating in a relationship I think. If sex were always different and being changed up, no one would cheat to get something different.
This may sound weird also, but has anyone noticed girls fall into 2 categories when it comes to having sex with someone new? Maybe there is a minor third here, but 1.) They jump right into bed and have no problem or moral issue with it. 2.) They make you wait forever. I wanna reinstate the 3rd date rule.
For those of you who don't know the third date rule, the theory behind it is if you get through 3 dates successfully, you spend the night together. This seems like a good middle ground between the two. I, of course, had to eliminate the category of "Won't have sex with you" simply because the situation I was talking about assumed the girl wanted to sleep with you in the first place.
This whole idea of calling people sluts is annoying in itself as well. I mean sure if you are the town bicycle that may be a bit much, but it seems like the bar is set for a really low number these days. A girl has sex with like 5 people at my age and suddenly she's a sure lay.
Girls who engage in friends with benefits type relationships are also considered sluts. Why can't it be that there are two people who have fun together and occasionally stuff happens? Why is that a bad thing. Better one of your friends than some random STD infested girl from a bar that doesn't even tell you her name before she's riding you.
As for the fetish subject, or fantasy.. I can't really say I've even got one! Is that weird? This almost makes me want to sit and put some thoguht into this. I'm sure I've got one. Or maybe I know what it is, but I'm just not ready to admit it to myself yet