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Glad you liked the song. You know...there is a wide-spread misconception that love is black or white, or that being alone is a sign that there's something wrong with you. Isn't it okay to love being alone? Isn't it okay to want some sort of affection, but not neccissarily be gaga, head-over-heals, I'm-going-to-die-with-this-person in love? Nothing in life is black or white, this or that, it's fluid and organic and it grows and changes, so why do we think that love should be either forever, or nothing? I'm not a big proponant of casual relationships, and I'm anti open relationships (it may work for some, but not me)....but at the same time I don't understand how can "til death do us part" is possible.

Dramatic love is just two people feeding each others insecurities and weaknesses. People have widely mistaken codependance for deep Love. Oh gosh, I'm going to stop right here or I'll go on forever.