pezzam

The original plan was to get married in July after Emily had already moved to Australia. so, I still have several months to plan for it.

I went to the immigration office. She can't be on my visa and be able to work unless we can prove our relationship through leases and bank statements and shit like that. We have never had any of that stuff together before.

New plan: We are getting married in less than 2 months when I go back for Christmas. Stress levels just took a sudden jump. Current problems is who to invite. We are keeping it extremely small scale. Emily has very little family and so besides immediate family, she is inviting an aunt and uncle (the wedding is at their house), and another aunt. My parents (mother especially) is a bit dissappointed that I said no aunts or uncles for my side of the family. But I have 2 aunts, 3 uncles, 7 cousins on my mothers side, and 4 aunts, 2 uncles, 6 cousins on my dad's side. Obviously all of them definitely wouldn't come, but I can't just invite some and not others. I will have this problem solved by the end of the week. We are also going to decide on wedding rings by the end of the week as well

We have had quite the fucked up relationship the past 6 months. Got engaged, I left for Australia a week later. Apart for seven months. I get back and we get married and I leave for Australia a week later and we are apart for five months. Hopefully after that we shouldn't have any more long term seperations.