Probably going to get my ass kicked for saying this, but...
In my humble opinion, Bi chicks with "supportive husbands/boyfriends" are something to be avoided.
Bi people in general have been known to be a little wishy-washy anyway (Of course that's not for you upstanding Bi's, so put your tire irons down). Now, thats not to say that theres anything wrong with being Bi or having a man in your life. Its just that in my experience - it's bad news.
Scenario 1 - The girl who's Bi FOR her boyfriend/husband.
For the record, I'm not the type of lesbian who hates bi chicks but I am a little weary of them and this is one of the reasons why. Many a time I have met girls who claim to be bi. After getting to know them better I find out that they are "involved with someone" who turns out to be a husband or boyfriend - but don't worry because "My boyfriend supports." For the sake of this scenario lets say I agree to continue seeing this girl, eventully it becomes apparent that she has no previous lesbian experience (which again is troublesome but not entirely a bad thing)...okay...next thing you know she starts talking up her boyfriend and dropping little hints about incuding him in our "fun". That is where I would draw a line. The girls who clearly only "emerged from the closet" to appease the fantasy of their male lover with no regard to the feelings of the lesbian hottie they coerced are slime. They should be shot. This scenerio has played out many times and alot of times even if the bi chick in question doesn't have him join in or watch, she's telling him about it. Believe that he's getting off on your intimate experiences with this girl and/or gets off on the fact (or not) that his chick likes chicks.
Scenario 2 - The "it doesn't count with a girl" girl
This one is particularly annoying.
Have you ever known a bi girl who has a boyfriend who "allows" her to see women on the side because "being with a woman doesn't count"? I've actually had people say this to me. YEAH. Crazy, right? There are some bi chicks who don't take lesbian relationships seriously. They see it as something fun on the side with no real emotional attachments and no deeper levels of intimacy. it's just casual sex that they can get away with and still keep their man.
Scenario 3 - (Kinda off topic but...) - The Jump out, Jump in girls
This goes for some gay/lesbian people as well but I find its more prevalent in Bi folk.
Lets say you start dating a(n unattached) bi chick. Fine and dandy. You like her, she likes you, everythings great. You take her to the movies and snuggle as you watch, you take her to the park for a picnic and feed eachother grapes, you go to the grocery store to pick up some whipcream and...she's sees her aunt, immediately lets go of your hand and (if you "appear gay") wont even stand too close to you and almost acts like she doesn't know you. WTF? Usually, before you date someone you have that "how out are you?" convo. For some reason, possibly to help assure you of their dedication to queerdom, a lot of bi chicks will say they're out completely in the beginning and then you'll learn they're only out to some people or possibly only to you.
That always burns my buscuits.
While we're at it...
Scenario 4 - The girls who want you to be their lesbian science experiment
You all know what i'm talking about. That's bullshit.
For all these reasons and certainly more I avoid bi chicks and their husbands/boyfriends at all costs. I'm sure there are some solid bi chicks who actually appreciate lesbian love and all, but they seem to be few and far between.
Wow, that was long.
End.
In my humble opinion, Bi chicks with "supportive husbands/boyfriends" are something to be avoided.
Bi people in general have been known to be a little wishy-washy anyway (Of course that's not for you upstanding Bi's, so put your tire irons down). Now, thats not to say that theres anything wrong with being Bi or having a man in your life. Its just that in my experience - it's bad news.
Scenario 1 - The girl who's Bi FOR her boyfriend/husband.
For the record, I'm not the type of lesbian who hates bi chicks but I am a little weary of them and this is one of the reasons why. Many a time I have met girls who claim to be bi. After getting to know them better I find out that they are "involved with someone" who turns out to be a husband or boyfriend - but don't worry because "My boyfriend supports." For the sake of this scenario lets say I agree to continue seeing this girl, eventully it becomes apparent that she has no previous lesbian experience (which again is troublesome but not entirely a bad thing)...okay...next thing you know she starts talking up her boyfriend and dropping little hints about incuding him in our "fun". That is where I would draw a line. The girls who clearly only "emerged from the closet" to appease the fantasy of their male lover with no regard to the feelings of the lesbian hottie they coerced are slime. They should be shot. This scenerio has played out many times and alot of times even if the bi chick in question doesn't have him join in or watch, she's telling him about it. Believe that he's getting off on your intimate experiences with this girl and/or gets off on the fact (or not) that his chick likes chicks.
Scenario 2 - The "it doesn't count with a girl" girl
This one is particularly annoying.
Have you ever known a bi girl who has a boyfriend who "allows" her to see women on the side because "being with a woman doesn't count"? I've actually had people say this to me. YEAH. Crazy, right? There are some bi chicks who don't take lesbian relationships seriously. They see it as something fun on the side with no real emotional attachments and no deeper levels of intimacy. it's just casual sex that they can get away with and still keep their man.
Scenario 3 - (Kinda off topic but...) - The Jump out, Jump in girls
This goes for some gay/lesbian people as well but I find its more prevalent in Bi folk.
Lets say you start dating a(n unattached) bi chick. Fine and dandy. You like her, she likes you, everythings great. You take her to the movies and snuggle as you watch, you take her to the park for a picnic and feed eachother grapes, you go to the grocery store to pick up some whipcream and...she's sees her aunt, immediately lets go of your hand and (if you "appear gay") wont even stand too close to you and almost acts like she doesn't know you. WTF? Usually, before you date someone you have that "how out are you?" convo. For some reason, possibly to help assure you of their dedication to queerdom, a lot of bi chicks will say they're out completely in the beginning and then you'll learn they're only out to some people or possibly only to you.
That always burns my buscuits.
While we're at it...
Scenario 4 - The girls who want you to be their lesbian science experiment
You all know what i'm talking about. That's bullshit.
For all these reasons and certainly more I avoid bi chicks and their husbands/boyfriends at all costs. I'm sure there are some solid bi chicks who actually appreciate lesbian love and all, but they seem to be few and far between.
Wow, that was long.
End.
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