I always thought I was a masochist, untill I read this...now I think I'm just into dominance and submission.
"Sadists enjoy inflicting pain; it may or may not be sexual in nature. Masochists enjoy receiving pain, which, again, may or may not be sexual. Dominance and submission is a more internal distinction, a power dynamic rather than a set of acts. Not all masochists are submissive, and not all submissives enjoy pain. Not all sadists are dominant, and not all who enjoy dominating others are sadists."
It's strange, it's not that when some one inflicts pain on me it feels good. Because it dosn't...but as soon as it's over I want more.
I read this article
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadism_and_masochism#The_psychology_of_S.26M
but the whole thing is still so confusing to me.
"Sadists enjoy inflicting pain; it may or may not be sexual in nature. Masochists enjoy receiving pain, which, again, may or may not be sexual. Dominance and submission is a more internal distinction, a power dynamic rather than a set of acts. Not all masochists are submissive, and not all submissives enjoy pain. Not all sadists are dominant, and not all who enjoy dominating others are sadists."
It's strange, it's not that when some one inflicts pain on me it feels good. Because it dosn't...but as soon as it's over I want more.
I read this article
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadism_and_masochism#The_psychology_of_S.26M
but the whole thing is still so confusing to me.
identity
like desire
is confusing
and evolving
never static
you change
your heat changes
what makes you hot changes
change is good
flux is better