ok so here i am totally thinking that this girl from back in ny is blowing me off because its easy now that we are far apart. so i havent seen this girl in about 6 years and when i was home last month i spent almost everyday with her and it was awesome. while i think this girl is amazing im not looking to get into a relationship with her because long distance doesnt work out with me and im kind of happy being single. she is much the same. so we spent this intense time together and then i never hear from her. she never answers her phone or returns calls, never answers emails or text messages. so i give up. i send her a letter to say that i think she is awesome, goodbye and to ask why she doesnt want to talk to me anymore.
so i sent this letter under the influence of large amounts of alcohol and read it over a few times to make sure it wasnt mean. but go figure... i get a letter back from her saying that her life is a mess and me not wanting to be her friend made things worse and now i feel like a stupid asshole face looser jerkoff.
why are girls so mean even when they arent even trying. so here i am sitting around tonight trying to figure out girls once again. just when you have one figured out you meet another one that destroys everything you thought.
so i sent this letter under the influence of large amounts of alcohol and read it over a few times to make sure it wasnt mean. but go figure... i get a letter back from her saying that her life is a mess and me not wanting to be her friend made things worse and now i feel like a stupid asshole face looser jerkoff.
why are girls so mean even when they arent even trying. so here i am sitting around tonight trying to figure out girls once again. just when you have one figured out you meet another one that destroys everything you thought.
it's her fault dude...don't think that it's yours.
you've made numerous attempts, don't worry about it.
i just went through this similiar thing. girl blowing me off like that, and when she was around and we were together...like peas and carrots.
i couldn't figure it out either.
fucking mixing signals...aregh!
i don't talk to her anymore or try to call or anything. funny thing is i did pretty much the same thing. send her a message like, "man, you know if you really didn't like me you should have just said something and not just blew me off." and she got a little offended.
like it's my fault! fuck that! even after i tried to make ammends but she kept dealing the same cards really.
so finally, i said fuck it. and still to this day, when i see her, she's all over it, but never calls, and we never do anything other than just hug and have her be real flirty or whatever.
if this helps at all...good luck.