Mother nature hates me. Every time I try and move something it starts snow. I have moved everything in the snow and did I mention that it's fuckin cold too. All my stuff is moved other then my tools, which I have an ass load of (how much is an ass load anyway) so they will be staying for awhile.
I hate snow. It does indeed really suck. I hate the cold too.
Moving is pretty lame, as well. I mean, I've only moved once in my life, but I don't remember liking it very much. Especially the moving shit up ten flights of stairs part.
Oh man, you guys have been so good to me. I want to thank everyone and a few I will contact to thank even more.
I'm in my new place now. Just got the internets turned on and am re-reading all your helpful comments.
Jo-Jo, my cat and I are doing much better. She is not so scared and I'm not so confused as we... Read More
I started moving my things into my new apartment yesterday. It wasn't so bad till my wife got home. Then the crying, pressure and guilt started.
My wife said she'll try this time, She was just hoping all this would just go away which it didn't. My step daughter, which she considers me her dad, said I can't... Read More
If you have tried, and nothing got better than you are doing the right thing.
Its going to be hard on them, but ponderch3rry said it best. It doesnt sound like you are confused...just like you are very sad about what is inevitably going to happen. If you stay out of guilt, eventually they would not like you for that. They want you to WANT to stay...and well..deep down....it doesnt sound like you want to.
I'm sorry sweetie. You know I was a big supporter of you trying to work it out...but you convinced ME you didnt want to.
This is so hard...remember, you can PM me anytime. I am not actually going back to work until Sunday so it will be eat, sleep, check SG. Eat, sleep, Check SG for me until then...still trying to heal an all.
I'm so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time.
I considered my step mother as my mother when my dad and her split in high school. It was hard to deal with I'm not going to lie; but I have the most wonderful relationship with her now, and I wouldn't trade what happened btw them for anything becasue in the end everyone was happier and I got to keep her!
Hopefully your daughter will eventually feel the same way I did It's true when they say time heals all wounds. I know it sounds like bullshit now but it was true in my case.
Thanks to everyone for all the supportive comments. Like others have said on here before I do feel like you guys are my real friends.
I took my 10 year old daughter Abigail (1 of 3 daughters from my first marriage) with me to pick out the apartment. I let her make the final decision sense she lives with me every other week. She had... Read More