Ok, now it gets confusing for me.
I started moving my things into my new apartment yesterday. It wasn't so bad till my wife got home. Then the crying, pressure and guilt started.
My wife said she'll try this time, She was just hoping all this would just go away which it didn't. My step daughter, which she considers me her dad, said I can't just run away from my problems and was really pissed that I was taking two of the three cats with me. They both brought up how they were there for me when I had trouble with my kids and ex and that is very true.
I can't stand to see them hurt, I love them. I said I would try and work this out and say. The next morning I'm fighting with my own mind. I think I know I need to go, my mind is already somewhere else. I don't want to work on this anymore, I have been doing that for 5 years now. I just so tired of work on things. I really feel like I was guilted into this.
So, I sit here on my couch in the house not the apartment wondering what the hell I'm going to do
Paxton
I started moving my things into my new apartment yesterday. It wasn't so bad till my wife got home. Then the crying, pressure and guilt started.
My wife said she'll try this time, She was just hoping all this would just go away which it didn't. My step daughter, which she considers me her dad, said I can't just run away from my problems and was really pissed that I was taking two of the three cats with me. They both brought up how they were there for me when I had trouble with my kids and ex and that is very true.
I can't stand to see them hurt, I love them. I said I would try and work this out and say. The next morning I'm fighting with my own mind. I think I know I need to go, my mind is already somewhere else. I don't want to work on this anymore, I have been doing that for 5 years now. I just so tired of work on things. I really feel like I was guilted into this.
So, I sit here on my couch in the house not the apartment wondering what the hell I'm going to do
Paxton
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Its going to be hard on them, but ponderch3rry said it best. It doesnt sound like you are confused...just like you are very sad about what is inevitably going to happen. If you stay out of guilt, eventually they would not like you for that. They want you to WANT to stay...and well..deep down....it doesnt sound like you want to.
I'm sorry sweetie. You know I was a big supporter of you trying to work it out...but you convinced ME you didnt want to.
This is so hard...remember, you can PM me anytime. I am not actually going back to work until Sunday so it will be eat, sleep, check SG. Eat, sleep, Check SG for me until then...still trying to heal an all.
I considered my step mother as my mother when my dad and her split in high school. It was hard to deal with I'm not going to lie; but I have the most wonderful relationship with her now, and I wouldn't trade what happened btw them for anything becasue in the end everyone was happier and I got to keep her!
Hopefully your daughter will eventually feel the same way I did It's true when they say time heals all wounds. I know it sounds like bullshit now but it was true in my case.
I'm thinking about you.