Wow.. what a weekend.. so now that I'm fully concious and what not, the real update on Life this weekend.
To put everything into perspective...
Work: The scary situation has toned down for the moment, but I don't believe it entirely over with either. Therapy has taught me alot lol. No seriously, you have to find a way to cope with that kind of bullshit.
Thursday night I was violently ill from bad chinese food.. lucky me.. Friday I go to work and pretty much don't eat anything that's not liquid.
After work and abstaining from Happy Hour with the co-workers I was off with many folks from the SGFL group to go see Lillithvain dance at Ybor Secrets. That was a totally awesome experience.. Lillithvain is gorgeous and just overall a really cool person. In fact the whole group out was totally cool, I can't wait to get out and do it again. (Especially if it involves hot naked women touching my tits.. I mean, life really doesn't get much better than that lol!). We went out to the Castle afterwards where I immediately was drunk off of my one drink... how embarassing. Lucky for me I sober up quickly (Not fast enough for those damned pesky stairs however... I made it down them though! And no.. not on my ass
)
So needless to say me and my roomie Tim12crl slept in yesterday and then proceeded to celebrate his birthday. We went out, went for dinner and went to a ball game where sneaky sneaky me had his name put up on the scoreboard wishing him a happy birthday.. so that was fun. We were supposed to go out after with some of my co-workers in Channelside but they were there a grand total of an hour before one of them didn't feel very well so they all went home. I'm not quite sure I really understand that.. but I wouldn't doubt it if girlie politics weren't involved.
And on that topic.. I am so sick of girls and their antics. "Oh well so and so and I are going over to her place but don't tell this other girl". I mean come on.. seriously. I hang out with this group of 3 other women i work with and we range in age from 24 to about 32 with about 3 years between each person on average. Anyhow.. I'm very much the fringe element of this group and kind of come and go to things the other 3 do when they feel like including me. Which is fine.. I'm so over being upset over the three of them being this tight little trio.. I mean, if I get to go out and do something fun with them every now and then, all the better. If not.. oh well.. I'm totally cool on my own lol. Anyhow.. very recently I've been spending more time around this trio of women and now I catch all this bullshit about 2 of them wanting to spend time together but don't tell the other one 'cuz the other one thinks she's best friends with this one.. but this one doesn't want to do stuff with her and so on and so on and so on.
I hate that shit. I mean why can't 4 reasonable adults just be friends or friendly or whatever the hell without getting into all this high school bullshit about "oh don't tell her this..." or "oh we'll do this but don't mention it to so and so..." fucking eh. Anyhow, it's not really -my- problem because it's not like i'm close enough to any of them to be the major listening ear of all this crap, and I'm sure i'm probably on the list of "don't tell her we're doing this". And I don't care, it's really not worth it. I just feel bad for the person who is getting excluded and doesn't know she's being excluded. At least I know relatively where I stand lol. And see.. the worst of it all, is that what I know about women.. is eventually the one being excluded will figure out she's being excluded.. be hurt and offended and then it'll be nasty.. especially considering we all work together.
Wow.. that got to be really long.. I had better stop!
To put everything into perspective...
Work: The scary situation has toned down for the moment, but I don't believe it entirely over with either. Therapy has taught me alot lol. No seriously, you have to find a way to cope with that kind of bullshit.
Thursday night I was violently ill from bad chinese food.. lucky me.. Friday I go to work and pretty much don't eat anything that's not liquid.
After work and abstaining from Happy Hour with the co-workers I was off with many folks from the SGFL group to go see Lillithvain dance at Ybor Secrets. That was a totally awesome experience.. Lillithvain is gorgeous and just overall a really cool person. In fact the whole group out was totally cool, I can't wait to get out and do it again. (Especially if it involves hot naked women touching my tits.. I mean, life really doesn't get much better than that lol!). We went out to the Castle afterwards where I immediately was drunk off of my one drink... how embarassing. Lucky for me I sober up quickly (Not fast enough for those damned pesky stairs however... I made it down them though! And no.. not on my ass
)
So needless to say me and my roomie Tim12crl slept in yesterday and then proceeded to celebrate his birthday. We went out, went for dinner and went to a ball game where sneaky sneaky me had his name put up on the scoreboard wishing him a happy birthday.. so that was fun. We were supposed to go out after with some of my co-workers in Channelside but they were there a grand total of an hour before one of them didn't feel very well so they all went home. I'm not quite sure I really understand that.. but I wouldn't doubt it if girlie politics weren't involved.
And on that topic.. I am so sick of girls and their antics. "Oh well so and so and I are going over to her place but don't tell this other girl". I mean come on.. seriously. I hang out with this group of 3 other women i work with and we range in age from 24 to about 32 with about 3 years between each person on average. Anyhow.. I'm very much the fringe element of this group and kind of come and go to things the other 3 do when they feel like including me. Which is fine.. I'm so over being upset over the three of them being this tight little trio.. I mean, if I get to go out and do something fun with them every now and then, all the better. If not.. oh well.. I'm totally cool on my own lol. Anyhow.. very recently I've been spending more time around this trio of women and now I catch all this bullshit about 2 of them wanting to spend time together but don't tell the other one 'cuz the other one thinks she's best friends with this one.. but this one doesn't want to do stuff with her and so on and so on and so on.
I hate that shit. I mean why can't 4 reasonable adults just be friends or friendly or whatever the hell without getting into all this high school bullshit about "oh don't tell her this..." or "oh we'll do this but don't mention it to so and so..." fucking eh. Anyhow, it's not really -my- problem because it's not like i'm close enough to any of them to be the major listening ear of all this crap, and I'm sure i'm probably on the list of "don't tell her we're doing this". And I don't care, it's really not worth it. I just feel bad for the person who is getting excluded and doesn't know she's being excluded. At least I know relatively where I stand lol. And see.. the worst of it all, is that what I know about women.. is eventually the one being excluded will figure out she's being excluded.. be hurt and offended and then it'll be nasty.. especially considering we all work together.
Wow.. that got to be really long.. I had better stop!
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I know all about girlie politics. My store is staffedby nothing but girls, so yeah. It's like high school in there, alllll the time. And to make it worse, we have 1 security guard, who (I think) 2 of the girls like. So yeah, each girl is always running to me and saying "oh well, on saturday she did this" and then the other will say "oh yeah, well on friday she did this". I just started ignoring it.
You just can't let it get to you....
and yes, we had so much fun on friday!! xo