Every couple should have a copy of Tristan Taormino's classic The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women.
There are plenty of reasons not to have anal sex. If one partner is just disgusted by the very idea, it should never be pursued. If a woman is concerned about pain, or has had a bad expediences, this book needs to be read, by both partners. I should note that neither Aisha not myself had read this book. We had anal figured out years before we met.
While we have not read the book, we have seen the hardcore video of the same name. At the time I first saw it, I did not know that Taormino's self chosen identification for her sexuality is "queer," though she had sex with men and women. In the first scene, she performs with another woman. In porn, we all have that one thing that does it for you. For me, it is women giving each other rim jobs, and Taormino does that. The final scene is an orgy, with five men and five women, if memory serves. Tristan has sex with each woman, and then has oral, vaginal, and anal sex with each of the men.
She looks much different now, and, while she is still involved in the porn business, she only performed in this film, and a sequel, in which her only sex scene is her with a strap on dildo, having sex with a woman.
She does speeches and workshops. Years ago, she appeared on the HBO series Real Sex, as did some Suicide Girls. On Tristan's episode, it was a workshop. Some couples were having anal sex, others were pegging. She walked around, supervised, and offered advice. Aisha and I have an agreement if we ever have a chance to go to one of these shindigs, we will go. Though I doubt she does anything like this anymore.
Fair to say I really want to fuck this women.
Which is harmless. I want to have sex with thousands of women, many on this site. Kate Beckinsale has said, "I want Republicans in my vagina." How about this Republican? Just because I want to have sex with someone does not it will, or even should, do so. In most cases, it is impossible. The word "most" is an extreme understatement.
Aisha, Serena, and I have been looking at a swinger's resort, in Mexico. We like it because it does not have all the rules that Hedonism does. You can be clothed on this side of this tree, but must be naked on the other. Desire is not like that. Clothing optional means clothing optional. While mot people there opt for nude, the resort does not want anyone to be uncomfortable.
Tristan will be there in November. It is open to anyone, even boring straight semi monogamous men like me. She is very active on these vacations. She also orchestrates an orgy. I am down with this, as long as I am with a woman.
Suddenly, I have a good chance st fucking Tristan Taormino.
Aisha, Serena, and myself have a week of fall vacation that we just spend at home, so we could do this, if we just rearrange our vacations. Aisha is always up for sex, and we have been to a sex resorts in the past. At that place, the women are professionals, provided by the resort. We have told Serena that we have, on occasion, haired prostitutes. Serena does not approve of this, but understands that we are very happy with her, and we not seek such services. Nor does Serena rally approve us having sex outside our little circle. Sex with random women, however, is a powerful hook. Serena might to for that.
Crush my dreams. On that week, Aisha will be menstruating. You can set your watch be her. Serena starts two to three days after Aisha.
As a sports fan, every year, after my teams fail yet again, I say to myself, "Next year."
Next year, I will fuck Tristan Taormino.