How do I live with a woman who is so violent, so nasty, and so prone to infidelity as Aisha? First, there is the way she looks. She has been 35 for over a decade or so. Arabs age gently. Also, after all these years, I am still crazy about her. We do, however have some basic rules we follow.
These rules may work for other couples. They may not. When somebody from Europe or South America criticizes the US, I just respond with "Different cultures, different methods, different rules. What works for us does not work for you. What works for you will not work for us. Different cultures."
Now, this is not international policy. It is affairs of the heart. Much more complicated.
1. We never go to bed angry.
2. We never use sex as a weapon.
3. Masturbation is allowed, unless another partner wants sex. Your partner is more important than you.
4. A quote from Aisha. "Most nights I do not want sex. But I always let a guy or a girl starts off on me. And for the first five minutes, it's unpleasant and uncomfortable. For the next hour, it is great."
5. Aisha has a t shirt that reads "I have the pussy, so I make the rules."
That is the most important thing anyone can possibly know. At the same time, it is wrong to think that a pussy is the only source of a woman's power. If you think that, as a woman, your vagina is your only source fo power, you underestimate yourself. If you are a man and think that you have all the power, you will learn when woman shatters your heart.
Aisha has all the power.