-scratches my head- I gotta stop getting these litle crushes on people. Seriously, they're getting irritating. I mean, they're never anything really serious, but y'know, it gets so bothersome. It's almost more of a period of fascination with a person before I snap out of it and cling to Bryan. I mean, don't get me wrong; I'd never cheat on Bryan nor are my feelings wavering at all(Hell, my feelings seem to have boosted even more for him lately. Wowza.) but there are times when I'll be with a group of girlfriends and one will appear especially "interesting" to me. it's usually because of matching interests - like we believe in the same sorta concepts, or can sit down and really TALK and click. I found this happening at this little overnight party a girlfriend of mine threw for her birthday. Wargh, it was so annoying to have that. xx; I pushed it off, though.
....-SNEEZE!-
....-SNEEZE!-
Now, what you do have to worry about in a relationship is what boundaries you and your partner have set up, and for fucks sake, you better respect them. If you are in an open relationship and it is understood that though the two of you are commited you are going to see other people, then see other people, and don't stress when your partner does it too... or if you are going to be monogamous and just date your partner, then only date your partner... you're free to look, of course, and even flirt with others, but for fucks sake, don't touch and don't feel guilty for feeling the attraction. As soon as the guilt sets in, you're done in.