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Sunday Aug 16, 2009

Aug 16, 2009
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It is so weird how quickly life can change.

7 months ago my mom moved in. Friday my mom moved out.
2 months ago my stepchildren arrived. Today they moved to England.

My life was so crazy all summer it felt. There was never time to be alone. There was no quiet. There seemed to be constant drama. Now my house feels silent.
The boys are playing video games together. They are getting along very well. There is no bickering.
The hubby will now start his month long mental check out. Every year when his kids leave he disconnects. He plays video games, plays on the computer or reads books. There is very little interaction. Ah the dysfunction. At least there is a pattern.

One of the groomsmen from our wedding. A man that Darren was in Iraq with is starting a trial separation with his wife. He asked for a divorce. They just bought a house, built a pool and a deck. They have 2 children. He suffers from a pretty severe PTSD, 100% disabled. She has stuck with him through thick and thin. This is a sad sad thing. As a divorcee, married to a divorcee, I can say that their kids will suffer and so will they. I wonder what will happen now.

Life is complicated isn't it?

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bettybruises:
the complications help us grow and make us stronger smile (too bad it's hard to remember that when we're in the middle of them)
Aug 16, 2009
ferkixlll:
The wheel is turning and you cann't hold on,
cann't go back and you cann't stand still,
every time that wheel goes 'round,
Bound to cover just a little more ground.

Hope that the household finds it's new routine.
Tragic about your Friend.
Aug 16, 2009

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