oruc_reis

First off let me start with the request. My name. I was given the name tongue boy by the people I work with. More specifically a 50 something year old colored lady who to before meeting me had never seen someone with there tongue pierced. The only way I can describe my work environment is hip hop so needless for me to say is a sort of stand out. Now the whole station I work at calls me tongue boy. The most disturbing thing is that I have had to have the sexual conversation with these women (who are old enough to be my mom) about the benefits of oral sex with a tongue piercing.


Now on to the matter of the day. Why do people hate you for telling them the truth? Background; I was dating a girl I work with and had to tell her that I felt that she was getting a little to attached and her expectations of what are relationship was were a little to high. Now she wont talk to me, look at me, or even just tell me to fuck off. Why cant she understand the only thing I can tell her is what I feel and not act like I ruined her whole life? I never intended to hurt her I liked talking to her (sometimes) and at his point in my life I believe I need a good friend not a girl friend.

Just to catch everyone up on me ill give the short version. Im going through a divorce where my soon to be ex told me she needed to be on her own and take care of herself and then moved in with a cheerleader (male it would have been better if it had been a female). Now she wants to be friends. I just want to cut all contact with her but her parents mean so much to me. They have treated me better in the last few years than my mother did in her entire life. How do you cut ties with the only real family you have ever known?

I think that will give all a quick sneak peek into my fucked up life.