ormunroe

My husband is out tonight with the guys. They are going to a stripclub with the hopes of getting a friend hammered so the strippers will get him on stage and de-pants and de-underwear him. Apparently, this club has a rep. of that happening for the unsuspecting newbies. Men.

I went over my non-clubbing married friend's house (M) tonight and she told me that the chica I went out with the other weekend (J) was mad at me. Apparently, when I visited M the other day J said hello and thought I didn't return the greeting (which I did but I guess she didn't hear it) so the entire time I'm there she's giving me the cold shoulder and I've been wondering why. Uhm, I'm an adult when did I check into middleschool?

And J's also mad at M because M couldn't watch J's 2 yr old tonight so she and her husband could go clubbing. J laid it on M last minute and thinks that since she watched M's children before that M owes her. M also told me that J feels the same way about me b/c her husband watched our children so we could go out. J volunteered her husband to watch my child so that we could go out last weekend, otherwise I wouldn't have gone so I didn't really see that as an "I owe you one" because she was asking me to go out with her. But, if she asks I'll watch her kid for a bit one day and that will probably be the end of that. I don't like the keeping tabs and everything I do, I do with getting a favor in return type friendship. That's not real friendship to me and I don't need it.

She's been relegated to the position of acquaintance. Any crush I may have held for her is now thoroughly done. I can't say its not about the physical for me but a huge portion is personality. Hers doesn't give me such a good vibe right now.

This chica, J, seems to have too much drama going on around her. I'm going to take a step back from her. She's younger than me and M but its like either parenthood changes some people or it doesn't and I suppose she's one of the people trying to hold on to too much of the pre-parenthood lifestyle.