In an effort to remove myself from the mire that is self-pity I will relate two of my rather naughty/embarrassing college experiences.
You have been warned.
*names have been changed to make myself feel better about sharing
So...freshman year...I am visiting my friend, Regina and her roommate Christie (whom I have a crush on). Christie decides she wants us to drink and smoke a substance....
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You have been warned.
*names have been changed to make myself feel better about sharing
So...freshman year...I am visiting my friend, Regina and her roommate Christie (whom I have a crush on). Christie decides she wants us to drink and smoke a substance....
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So...the husband has said we will go to marital counseling. I agreed to this in hopes that perhaps having a third party familiar with my feelings and our situation will help him better understand. I call the counseling center to make an appt. with my counselor and turns out she's skipped town...Ha!
She mentioned something at my last appt. about considering different counseling positions but...
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She mentioned something at my last appt. about considering different counseling positions but...
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lolablu:
Thank you for your response.
I am in a monogamous relationship. One riddled with problems, which may be part of the reason I'm so open to an attraction to another person. I have been trying very hard to fix things with my girlfriend for the past couple of months, but I don't feel she is receptive and it's getting very frustrating.
I'm sorry your counselor has skipped town looking for pirate booty.
I am in a monogamous relationship. One riddled with problems, which may be part of the reason I'm so open to an attraction to another person. I have been trying very hard to fix things with my girlfriend for the past couple of months, but I don't feel she is receptive and it's getting very frustrating.
I'm sorry your counselor has skipped town looking for pirate booty.
cynicalkoolaid:
I wish you the best of luck with the new counselor. Finding a good one stateside is hard enough, let alone on a military base.
Of course, I might be a bit biased, as I pretty much hate all headshrinkers.
Of course, I might be a bit biased, as I pretty much hate all headshrinkers.
Well, after mostly skulking around the house and avoiding me, my husband came into the kitchen as I was fixing dinner and told me he wasn't going to sign any divorce papers.
I was stunned into speechlessness. He then said that if we did get divorced he would do whatever he could to get full custody of the baby but that custody doesn't matter because...
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I was stunned into speechlessness. He then said that if we did get divorced he would do whatever he could to get full custody of the baby but that custody doesn't matter because...
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josearcadio:
I am very sorry
jeff_fries:
Thanks for the birthday wishes
And I hope everything works out! Lord.
And I hope everything works out! Lord.
I've never received so many comments before.
*feeling special* Thanks again to everyone for your kind birthday wishes!
More of the same with a slight twist.
Sidenote: My 15 yr. old niece is pregnant and she doesn't know who the father is. Chaos ensues. With that in mind, I'm going to wait a day or so to email my mother, shes rather distraught and I...
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More of the same with a slight twist.
Sidenote: My 15 yr. old niece is pregnant and she doesn't know who the father is. Chaos ensues. With that in mind, I'm going to wait a day or so to email my mother, shes rather distraught and I...
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thedarkness:
You should feel special.
You are right, kids these days; that is why my kids are not going to date until they are twenty.
You are right, kids these days; that is why my kids are not going to date until they are twenty.
zenichols:
I agree with you women do have a hard time distancing the sex and the emotions. As a matter of fact I knew one girl that clamed she could do that. 5 months down the road I found out she had feeling for me and I had already made my mind up to move out of state. Damn I wish that one could have worked out. But this girl does have emotions from right of the bat. We had only been dating a week when she put a pic of Dave Navaro up in her room because it reminded her of me. That may be just a little creepy if you ask me. And speaking of the devil I just got he second private caller on my cell phone and she left a message earlier today that I haven't called her bak on. I think she may be outside in the bushes
. I may have a stalker on my hands now, but like I tell my friends at least I'll always know were she is and it may come in handy if I ever get a flat tire.
I got a lot of messages on my birthday too it made me feel loved. I need to get out of here but I hope you have a wonderful day. Just think if we were ever to get married we would never forget each others birthday.
Zen
I got a lot of messages on my birthday too it made me feel loved. I need to get out of here but I hope you have a wonderful day. Just think if we were ever to get married we would never forget each others birthday.
Zen
I'm officially 23 yrs old ya'll! Well, at 11:54pm but we'll just overlook that. Thank you for the birthday wishes.
My husband and I had 'the talk' last night and it went as well as can be expected in this situation. But he's talking to me now and wished me a happy birthday before he left for work so that heartens me some.
And here...
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My husband and I had 'the talk' last night and it went as well as can be expected in this situation. But he's talking to me now and wished me a happy birthday before he left for work so that heartens me some.
And here...
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rosehips:
I am glad the talk went relatively well.
I hope you are having a very Happy Birthday.
[Edited on Apr 22, 2005 6:45PM]
I hope you are having a very Happy Birthday.
[Edited on Apr 22, 2005 6:45PM]
big_slikk:
Hope you had a Great Day! You can never get enough of that, Happy Birthday! may your wish have come true by now.
I've decided that after I have 'the talk' with my husband next week I will have to email my parents.
They are both strict Christians and I know that being in their household and not abiding by the religious standards they believe in can put them in a bad situation within the congregation. Being raised and baptized in this religion myself, I also have an...
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They are both strict Christians and I know that being in their household and not abiding by the religious standards they believe in can put them in a bad situation within the congregation. Being raised and baptized in this religion myself, I also have an...
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huny:
I went through a similar dilemma about six years ago when I ceased referring to and thinking of myself as a christian. my parents, as dramatic as they tend to be, thought I was either going through a phase or had turned into a godless heathen, and for awhile it was tough but I never lost their love or support. I still avoid the subject with them, but they certainly didn't disown me. I hope your parents pleasantly surprise you...I have a feeling they might, especially if you explain your position as articulately as I see you write on this site all the time.
& happy birthday darlin
& happy birthday darlin
krass_of_nod:
WHAT A CUTE BABY....My girlfriend has an 8 month old. I love babies they are the coolest, even when they shit up thier backs the poor little things.......
Seriously though very cute baby.
Seriously though very cute baby.
thedarkness:
Such a beautiful child!
ami:
adorable
SAVE DARFUR!
Please excuse my language but at times only certain words can get across the needed intensity....
What the fuck is going on!! What the FUCK is going on!! How can this be happening again? How? And why don't they talk about the genocide everyday on the news? If the country can get up in arms about the plight of one woman's condition of...
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Please excuse my language but at times only certain words can get across the needed intensity....
What the fuck is going on!! What the FUCK is going on!! How can this be happening again? How? And why don't they talk about the genocide everyday on the news? If the country can get up in arms about the plight of one woman's condition of...
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bleeder:
And tahnk you oh so very much for the comment.
metaleric:
Thank you for the kind compliments.
I'm glad you liked my pics.
I'm glad you liked my pics.
Well, I didn't get to talk with my husband last night. He had to work late and when he came home he was very upset. Not only did he have to work late but today he has CQ which means he'll be on duty from 9am today till 9am Sunday morning. So Sunday will be mostly a sleeping day for him.
We were invited to...
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We were invited to...
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ill_will:
Hi back to you! Sorry about your husband.
Mimi loves Fruits Basket anime. She sits through the entire opening and ending theme songs transfixed and while playing in her playpen will actually stop every few minutes to watch. Of course I play it in Japanese (can't stand dubs except for Spirited Away since I saw it first dubbed).
Now I have an excuse to buy the soundtrack(s).
Woot! Oh, and my husband ordered...
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Now I have an excuse to buy the soundtrack(s).
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agnosticf:
w00t ... i love frank castle
i'm jealous...
oh, you've got lovely eyes...
i'm jealous...
oh, you've got lovely eyes...
ami:
dont get down on yourself for wanting to keep your plans quit. being married to someone who's life is filled with other commitments is tough as hell/ the military takes up so much time and can add so much turmoil but taking care of yourself adn your littel one are first.
i've mentioned it before, that i'm inthe same boat, and really i just worry about workign onm hte relationship while i'm in it. it wont end one day with one fight adn one mutual screaming match but i'm sure it'll end. when that time comes then i'll start dealing with my faer of being lonely and have a just fucked myself. for now all there is this and for now that's decent enough.
i've mentioned it before, that i'm inthe same boat, and really i just worry about workign onm hte relationship while i'm in it. it wont end one day with one fight adn one mutual screaming match but i'm sure it'll end. when that time comes then i'll start dealing with my faer of being lonely and have a just fucked myself. for now all there is this and for now that's decent enough.
The diet/eating healthy/exercise lifestyle change is going well. I don't own a scale so I don't know how much weight I've lost but I don't mind that. I can tell I've lost weight and am toning up...the husband has noticed too.
I'm vain although I try not to be.
The only down side is that my arms rival his in bicep size. Ha.
Picking up...
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The only down side is that my arms rival his in bicep size. Ha.
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thedarkness:
I think that everyone is a little vain. Not to sound mean but is your man a little on the skinny size?
If your biceps are equal insize, I would hate for you to use them on me.
Have a good day girl.
If your biceps are equal insize, I would hate for you to use them on me.
Have a good day girl.
My pookie pie loves paper of any kind. We spend all kinds of money on developmental yet fun baby toys and she'll toss them for a napkin any day. I'm kinda hoping she'll be one of those kids that can find a stick and spend hours imagining shes a queen or a horsewoman or a lion tamer or a maestro...The idea of her growing up...
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thedarkness:
We are the same way with the twins, they rather be outside playing in the dirt or with the laundry basket; yet have a room full of mind challenging toys.
I try to challenge them by having them read a simple book, but the boy just eats them.
I agree, Hexe is the cat's meow.
I try to challenge them by having them read a simple book, but the boy just eats them.
I agree, Hexe is the cat's meow.
harveynick:
Hi there, right back at ya.
I'm told that when I was little I would put my preasents to one side and play with the boxes for hours. It's a good way to be. And liking paper is cool. Maybe it means they'll be an artist.
Changing the subject, I think more companies should put similar labels on their clothes. We brits could do the same thing with Prince Philip, since we actually didn't vote for him.
The BNP really are that bad. Well, verging on it, at least. I really hope it's the leaders of the countries in question which are being called evil... even Bush couldn't be that daft, right?
I'm told that when I was little I would put my preasents to one side and play with the boxes for hours. It's a good way to be. And liking paper is cool. Maybe it means they'll be an artist.
Changing the subject, I think more companies should put similar labels on their clothes. We brits could do the same thing with Prince Philip, since we actually didn't vote for him.
The BNP really are that bad. Well, verging on it, at least. I really hope it's the leaders of the countries in question which are being called evil... even Bush couldn't be that daft, right?

eigentlich knnten wir ja auch auf deutsch schreiben oder? ?