I'm reading a book right now called "The End of Gay (and the death of heterosexuality)" by Bert Archer. Basically he's calling out all identity categories as utter bullshit. The whole, "I don't call myself anything. I just am" game. I've been straight, lesbian, bisexual, queer, questioning, gender confused, you name it, I've tried it, and I swear I don't fit anywhere. I'd like to hear another serious student's (who identifies as something other than 'heterosexual') opinion on this. Check the book if you get the time.
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