this sucks...it's one of those rare times when being single really blows. My friend, a guy I work with, his wife died saturday (she was also a friend) It was very sudden. The worst part of it, is he was in Afghanistan when it happened. His 3 kids (who I know) lost their mother and their father was on the other side of the planet. I just met him at the airport, he's home with them now but it's so hard. i hate feeling so helpless and lost. I can't imagine, nor would I want to, what they are all going though.