My husband and I were siting in the car, talking about polyamory, in the Safeway parking lot. We have this thing with having to finish a conversation before exiting the vehicle. While he was telling me what he'd want out of a polyamorous relationship, I looked over the building and saw the twilight through the trees. I told him to keep talking, that I was listening, but that I wanted to get the shot before the light faded. And he did. And I did. And that makes me happy that we understand each other.