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Tuesday May 13, 2003

May 13, 2003
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So, there's this guy who spends a lot of time at my house and is really pissing me off. He is my roommate's ex, and still in love with her. It's kinda gross to watch. He ows my boyfriend $500, but since its down from over $700, he acts like he doesn't owe him anything anymore. He spends all his money on weed, which normally doens't piss me off, but that means that I can't split bags with my housemate anymore, so I have to pay full price. And he still smokes it. grr. I want to kick his ass, but he's bigger than me. He's such a fucking mooch and he eats all of our food! My housemate won't get rid of him cause there still friends and blah blah blah, but he's obsessed with her and he keeps her from making better friends, like ones that won't take advatage of her generosity and nonconfrontational attitude. Plus, he puts a strain on my relationship with my boyfriend cause mine is really broke and wishes he could put some money in for groceries for the house, but he can't. I'm so angry! mad mad mad mad

Incedentally, does anyone have any advice on the matter?
wildchild:
This guy sounds like a lame-ass free loader. I actually found myself a bit angry after reading your entry. I know the situation all to well. It's a shitty one to be in, and it sucks that you are probably going to have to be the one to put your foot down and take the incentive to change things. Maybe pull your housemate aside when he's not around and tell her that the situation has just become ridiculous and you can't live this way. If she has any compassion for you, she will understand how this is making you feel uncomfortable in your own home. I'm sure she probably doesn't like that she is being used either. Is she a very passive woman? Perhaps she's afraid to stand up to him. Sounds to me like a house meeting should happen soon. If nothing comes of it, maybe it's time to play dirty. Change the locks so he can't get in. I'm sure there are a lot of steps that can be taken to prevent this guy from coming around if he's really not welcome. I hope everything works out! Best of luck!
May 13, 2003
iansnotemo:
i heartily agree with the above. try nice, then not-so-nice. then hire a hitman. or is that too much?

i have a friend at uni who's house is full of freeloading arseholes. he's such a nice guy though, he doesn't see them as taking advantage - he pays full rent for the house, pays all the bills, buys all the food and is the only on with a job.

i have to say in that instance we did forcefully eject one of the squatters. we decided he was too much of a prick to stay. (I.e. attempted rape.)

hope whatever you do works out!
May 13, 2003

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