obsidity

Wow,
I had forgotten it had started and then I didn't want to break the flow. ..
Thanks to all the well wishers--I've been failthfully wisihing "happy Birthday " to those I see on here and it seriously is fulfilling to get so many people supporting you in another year, even if it's a simple phrase. I was unsure when SG first installed the balloon but now I know it is a nice addition.

Special Thanks to Juliana and Davel who separately took me out and we had awesome times though half of it was probably filled with my trials and tribulations...it's funny though when you feel like you can't ever say anything and then find commiseration and identfication and support...So I thank both of you and hear's to hanging out and exploring this fair city and pushing on through the past ....and those in their thirties everywhere. yeah, baby.

and the Young Man, on his student budget (a phone card costs more than food for 3 days in Beijing) called to wish me a happy birthday --even though I never made it clear that my birthday was even coming up so he was caught unawares-- I need to get a phone card to take the monetary pressure off him.
I think I'll go roll around in all my "happy birthdays"...thanks so much!!