well if there's a way for a weekend to 180, it's done it.
Everything has... started sucking again. And it's only sunday.
I'm skating on thin ice at the alt. school... but if you really ask me, They're skating on thin ice.
The instructor there joins in school inappropriate activities, makes fun of the students, talks about how "nasty" they are behind their back, and hits on the male students... all of them. She also dresses out of the guidelines of the "code of conduct" book we are given each year.
She broke a very big big rule. She fucking crossed me, and not in a good way. I simply wrote a very educated and APPROPRIATE e-mail... you know what, I'm just going to post it here, so you can see how I addressed her and then how she replied:
1.) e-mail from me:
This is a formal letter of complaint intended to address the classroom situation. The classroom management skills and behavior in this class are rediculous. Not only on the students' part, but yours as well. I feel that if no one acknowledges this problem and admits to being part of it... the situation will only worsen, causing many more problems. I desire for these to be remedied if not complete omitted. I'm sure there is some sort of NEGOTIABLE agreement that you could come to with everyone else, including the unblocking of some the the vital internet resources. If the aforementioned problems are not attended to, I will report them myself.
-mati
2.) What she replied:
Mattie
Stop emailing me and do your work. You are a big part of any classroom disturbance. You need to do your work. This means no talking, emailing, and no disrespectful behavior!
Mrs Bucher
Note the fact she misspelled my name, was redundant and displayed the mental capacity and maturity of a toddler. And I also love how she told me to stop e-mailing her although we're supposed to use the e-mailing program provided by the "novelstars" website to contact her as needed.
I'm not sure about how to present this situation to anyone... most of all my father who has disowned me for getting kicked out of school by her for this e-mail. I haven't spoken to him abut it or shown him this conversation, either... I don't know if it's worth the effort. Anyone who isn't me is whose side is automatically taken.
Well... I shall await your comments and input. Until then... have a better weekend than I do.
I really wanted to talk about more than "school" but I'm just too worn out now.
Everything has... started sucking again. And it's only sunday.
I'm skating on thin ice at the alt. school... but if you really ask me, They're skating on thin ice.
The instructor there joins in school inappropriate activities, makes fun of the students, talks about how "nasty" they are behind their back, and hits on the male students... all of them. She also dresses out of the guidelines of the "code of conduct" book we are given each year.
She broke a very big big rule. She fucking crossed me, and not in a good way. I simply wrote a very educated and APPROPRIATE e-mail... you know what, I'm just going to post it here, so you can see how I addressed her and then how she replied:
1.) e-mail from me:
This is a formal letter of complaint intended to address the classroom situation. The classroom management skills and behavior in this class are rediculous. Not only on the students' part, but yours as well. I feel that if no one acknowledges this problem and admits to being part of it... the situation will only worsen, causing many more problems. I desire for these to be remedied if not complete omitted. I'm sure there is some sort of NEGOTIABLE agreement that you could come to with everyone else, including the unblocking of some the the vital internet resources. If the aforementioned problems are not attended to, I will report them myself.
-mati
2.) What she replied:
Mattie
Stop emailing me and do your work. You are a big part of any classroom disturbance. You need to do your work. This means no talking, emailing, and no disrespectful behavior!
Mrs Bucher
Note the fact she misspelled my name, was redundant and displayed the mental capacity and maturity of a toddler. And I also love how she told me to stop e-mailing her although we're supposed to use the e-mailing program provided by the "novelstars" website to contact her as needed.
I'm not sure about how to present this situation to anyone... most of all my father who has disowned me for getting kicked out of school by her for this e-mail. I haven't spoken to him abut it or shown him this conversation, either... I don't know if it's worth the effort. Anyone who isn't me is whose side is automatically taken.
Well... I shall await your comments and input. Until then... have a better weekend than I do.
I really wanted to talk about more than "school" but I'm just too worn out now.
you got thrown out of school because of that email? if that's true, that is just f-ing ridiculous.
is there some higher authority that you could take this up with [ie dean]? it's pretty clear that the teahcer doesn't give a shit about anything and someone higher up needs to handle this.
if you really did get kicked out of school, your dad is going to be pissed for a while. he needs time to cool off. then you can explain exactly what happened. you must wait and explain calmly and not place blame on everyone. present printouts of email conversations without immediately blaming the teacher or calling her an immature wahtever. cause placing blame gets people to become defensive and in that case you will not win. fighting with defensive parents is futile.
dont blame yourself for this. you've done exactly what you are supposed to do in such a situation.
at this point you need to make an assessment of the situation and follow the appropriate path forward. and remember - perhaps the appropriate path is going to school somewhere else.
try and relax and think about the next move you're going to make.