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Monday Dec 20, 2004

Dec 20, 2004
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Time to move on. I've defined myself in relation to him for too many years. I've been "so and sos" girlfriend for as long as I can remember and I'm not even sure I know who I am anymore. I don't like who I am when all I do is think about him. I love him. I will always love him. But it is impossible to make someone love you in return. And if he doesn't care enough to be involved in my life anymore, that's really a sign to get along with it.

I haven't "dated" since I was 18. The field has changed so much since I was that age, I don't think I even know what to do. Back then, it was all about fun and passion and insanity. I suppose it is still supposed to be. But that's where I get in trouble and end up being interested in people too young for me.

So help me. How do I date? I've completely forgotten...
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zpo:
Rev is right on target. Take care of yourself first. It really is OK to have fun being single. Its kind of neat. You don't have to coordinate schedules with anyone.

The best dates are the ones you find in the most normal places. It would be anything from a guy at the grocery store to somebody you meet online. Above all, be safe!

When you're ready you might try this book. I've never read it, but a friend of mine did and kept laughing her ass off while she was reading it. biggrin

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0452280117/002-5343424-9936063?v=glance

kiss
Dec 20, 2004
xanotherdeadhero:
basically, i say fuck those rules. Go for the fun and insanity. thats what its supposed to be all about. Try to have fun but stay clear of trouble (most of the time). I dont really know any better than you, but that is what i would say. wink
Dec 21, 2004

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