nuria

I'm having a fucking drama.

So I get home from my overnighter in Slovenia last night. I had asked a friend who lives down the street to come and let my dogs out while we were gone. So when I get home I notice that his email address came up when I pulled up Hotmail. So of course I think "What the fuck was he doing on our computer while we were gone considering he lives two houses away?"

Well funny thing, my husbands job is internet/computer shit right, so he pulls up all the accessed files for the two days we were gone and what did we find? Dip-shit with no soul pulled up some pictures of me doing my hair topless! Well funny thing that he's denying it. "Dude, I totally understand. I would be pissed as well but I didn't do it." Well computer files don't open themselves when a computer is supposed to be off all weekend. But still he didn't do it. *note sarcasm

So I tell his wife who is also my best friend. She says she's sorry and she'll talk to him. I asked her to check her computer and see if he sent the files to his hotmail. So I go over their house about an hour later and she's chatting on the phone laughing blah blah blah. I'm thinking to myself if my husband did this, first thing I would do is ask to see their computer and when the pictures were accessed. Then I would go home and rip my computer apart, check all the files that they could have been saved in and MAKE him show me his email account. But she's fucking laughing like it's nothing. So I'm standing there as Eric goes upstairs with her husband and makes him show his email account. So I ask her what's up. She get's all red in the face and says to me "what am I supposed to do." Well that was not the fucking thing to say to me because there were a million things that she could have been doing that she wasn't. So at that point we start yelling at eachother and I'm feeling more and more like she doesn't care. What is she supposed to do? I don't expect her do bad-mouth her husband or be quick to my defense. But there is no way that I would let an hour go by in our conversation without calling her to say what was up. "Hey I talked to him and this is what he said." "Hey, I checked his email and our computer files and I didn't find anything on there." I would have appreciated a simple "I know I already said this, but I'm really sorry this happened. Honestly I don't know why this happened but I'm sorry." But no I get a bullshit "what do you want me to do?

The fucked up thing is these were our friends. People I wanted to stay in contact with forever. People that I wanted to know until I was old and gray. People that my husband would spend a day of his own time trying to help because they got fucked over. People who I defended when talked about. People who I loved.


Edited to say that I don't think my best-friend has been a very good friend for a long time. It's sad to say that I really don't think she cares about me or my well-being. I've been through a lot of shit with her, shared a lot fo private things. Now I just wish that I would have kept it superficial with both her and her husband because I'm beginning to question whether she has ever cared.

*on an additional note, while this big jerkie might desearve to be missing some teeth, there is no chance that anything will happen to him. No fights for my honor, no more arguments. My husband and I aren't going to risk our mental well-being, happiness, nor his career for this p-o-s. And since he's a memeber here I hope he reads this, I hope he understands what a fucked up thing he did. But in the end, I dont' think he'll really care.