nuclearpretzel

That is sooooo cute.

Mikael is actually my REAL name. Name in real life. What my parents gave me. It's also what name I use when I shoot photosets for Les and others.

Hey, it sucks, but that's how we keep this community alive. Though, i don't think there's a ban on shoulder-gazing. Yet.

I'll miss you. But definately add me as a friend when you have an account too!!!

For your info: http://suicidegirls.com/boards/Hook-Up/40092/

If you just keep it quiet no one will know or care.

Aww, thank you very much ! If every girl in france think like you, i'll be very happy !

thanks for your comments on my set, you are too sweet

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darkskyy1

Note: In which one of those did I royally fuck up the grammar? LOL

What's even worse than the actual abuse itself is the mentality of the victim in this case. At the risk of sounding like I'm condoning this sort of thing (which I'm NOT), in some cases, certain people need this kind of treatment to feel fulfilled, wanted. They obviously need therapy as badly as the abuser. That being said, I hope he gets punished to the fullest extent of the law, and I hope she gets help.

ahh, human drama.

edited for meaning-obsuring typos.

[Edited on Apr 15, 2004 12:22PM]

Yeah I agree with you pretty much. I'm not sure that they need it to feel fulfilled but over time the abused manage to convince themselves that the goods in the relationship outweigh the bads, and that even if they did leave they wouldn't be able to do any better. I think it's partially a self esteem issue. Also sometimes they try to rationalize it and convince themselves it was their fault, or that they deserved it, and so the abuser "really isn't such a bad guy, he just did it because he loves me."

It just makes me oppressively sad to know that there are still people going through this every day and telling themselves why it isn't so bad.

After we knew this guy had passed out, kenny and I were very close to going into his room and beating the fuck out of him. He hadn't locked his door...it was so tempting...to give him a taste of his own medicine. It almost would have been worth it, even if it does sort of sink us to his level. I'm a pretty nonviolent guy......but assholes like that just deserve pain.

congrats! John Sinclair just came around here last autumn, too, and it was absolutely awesome. Those old cats are just really together. I wish we had outspoken, talented members of our generation.

btw, i LOVED Shroedinger's Kittens (a nod to both quantum theory and one of my favorite authors), but alas, the rest of the band didn't like it.

hi- loved the sassy look in your PSW set!!!!!!! cant wait for more!