Monday Sep 28, 2009

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ok. so a super quick update (i have Dexter to watch...)

the world did not end.
things are...ok.
we talked, i'm still pissed, but i do believe him we he said he was just trying to find girls that he thought were pretty to check out (he swears he has bad luck with regular porn).
also- we've now talked about how looking to cute girls to enjoy on a dating site is creepy, and not ok.
didn't think that was really something that needed to be spelled out- but apparently i'd been wrong.
we talked about other stuff.
he is walking on thin ice, but i'm trying to forgive him when he says he's sorry (for fucks sake, i'm guilty of a million of things too).
thank you everyone that pmed me and commented and stuff. things are ok now.
not great, not perfect, but ok.
i just needed to blow off the steam from the anger.
you guys are awesome
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avidity:
lol you'll be surprised how many men think this is "okay." i don't understand it. if you're with someone, you're WITH someone. look at porn, but real, flesh and blood chicks you could actually meet and hook up with.....NO.

needless to say i've had this conversation. lol
harlee_xo:
I've been in a similar situation in a previous relationship...and man does that suck. I definitely can empathize. I'm glad you were able to talk with him though. It'll take lots of time to rebuild your trust, so hopefully things will keep getting better.

<3 xo

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