OK here's the story and an update.
About a month ago I was at a punk show at a bar, I noticed a beautiful young woman come in but I was too shy to talk to her. I run into a friend of mine that wants to introduce me to someone. Yes it was HER, I was quite pleased. I talked to her on the patio for about an hour or so and was kinda drunk by then so I was funny and charming. I invited her to something I was organizing the next day. I talked to my friend that introduced us and told her I liked her friend and she told me that after they left she had said that I was the funniest smartest guy she had met in Canada (she'd only been here from Portugal a few days at this point) and she thought I was really interesting. Good sign. Anyways she shows up the next day and we hang out again. We start spending a lot of time together with 2 mutual friends. After she goes home we stay up talking on MSN all night. When hangin with our friends we are still spending most of our time together. Good sign. We finally go out somewhere just the 2 of us. She spends the night on the couch and is supposed to go home on the 1st subway. We spend the whole next day together, a little flirting and stuff. She wants to leave where she's staying, I tell her she can stay in a spare bedroom, she agrees. Good sign. The next night her and a friend come over, her friend leaves, she stays. Good sign(she hasn't moved in yet). She then takes me by the hand and leads me up to my room, turns off the light and asks me to lay in bed with her. GOOD SIGN We are cuddling and shit, she's gettin pretty worked up, heavy petting but no kissing (bad sign, no kissing I mean). She stops, she seems upset, I'm still not trying to put the moves on her, she was initiating, then she starts again, more intense, and stops. She's got "issues" obviously but this just makes me want to figure out this puzzle. I'm stupid. The next night same scenario to start with and then she kisses me
Things are gettin' pretty hot, she's getting naked, we're about to have sex... her "I think we should just be friends" WHAT THE FUCK? I tell her I disagree, she's worried it would hurt our friendship, I disagree since we just met and it was obvious from the start. She tells me that she wants me to stay in her room that night but we weren't gonna fool around anymore. I tell her I'm not mad at her but I can't just sleep beside her right now, that would be torture. From this point on her name is MINDFUCK.
So I'm kinda bummed but put it in my head that we're just friends so stop trying to woo her. We still hang out and spend most of our free time together. She starts flirting with me, she cuddles with me on the couch, holds my hand, all that shit. I'm like ok, I'll go along with this I wanna get laid, if it happens it happens. Problem in she runs hot and cold, she's either all over me or completely distant. I'm also noticing characteristics about her I really don't like which is making things a lot easier cuz it's becoming more of a physical thing but when we connect it's still great and she's a sweet person. She is also a very self absorbed person, she only wants to talk about things she likes or is interested in and will cut you off or just seems uninterested. I'm realizing she is way too self absorbed and I am getting frustrated with her, but she is sooo damned cute and when we click it feels really good. Yesterday we got in a very small fight, she mistook something I said and walked off, I said fine and kept doing what I was doing. On the way home I caught up to her at a traffic light said hi and just kept on walking home. She came back a couple hours later, asked if I was mad, I said no but I was but there's no point cuz she doesn't listen anyway. She seemed happy I wasn't mad. I went out to buy some beer (she doesn't drink which was what I thought was going to be the big obstacle, I WISH!!) and when I came back she ran up to me jumped up hugging me, wrapped her legs around me and went for a kiss but changed her mind and kissed me on the neck. She walked with me to the park where I was meeting my fiends, hung around for a little while and walked my dog home, she told me she'd still be up when I got home. Of course when I got home she was asleep but she had left her door open. I wasn't gonna get shot down again so I just went to bed after leaving her a little drawing of her and my dog in love while I was drunk and closed her door for her. Today she is COMPLETELY distant again, it seems that when she starts feeling things for me she turns herself off as some defense mechanism. Hence the name MINDFUCK. I know we'll go through this scenario many times before she leaves to go back to Portugal but I just hope 1 of these times it actually ends with sex, I'm not gonna play the head games but I will play with her body.
On another note a girl I met last fall that I really clicked with is coming back to Toronto for a pitstop and she has broken up with her whiny boyfriend. I'll have a girl to drink with and who knows? for a little while. Now how much do you wanna bet MINDFUCK gets totally jealous? Now will she move out or try to keep me away from my drinkin buddy?
Wow that was REALLY LONG, SORRY but you asked.
So what do you think? 1 bullet or 2?
About a month ago I was at a punk show at a bar, I noticed a beautiful young woman come in but I was too shy to talk to her. I run into a friend of mine that wants to introduce me to someone. Yes it was HER, I was quite pleased. I talked to her on the patio for about an hour or so and was kinda drunk by then so I was funny and charming. I invited her to something I was organizing the next day. I talked to my friend that introduced us and told her I liked her friend and she told me that after they left she had said that I was the funniest smartest guy she had met in Canada (she'd only been here from Portugal a few days at this point) and she thought I was really interesting. Good sign. Anyways she shows up the next day and we hang out again. We start spending a lot of time together with 2 mutual friends. After she goes home we stay up talking on MSN all night. When hangin with our friends we are still spending most of our time together. Good sign. We finally go out somewhere just the 2 of us. She spends the night on the couch and is supposed to go home on the 1st subway. We spend the whole next day together, a little flirting and stuff. She wants to leave where she's staying, I tell her she can stay in a spare bedroom, she agrees. Good sign. The next night her and a friend come over, her friend leaves, she stays. Good sign(she hasn't moved in yet). She then takes me by the hand and leads me up to my room, turns off the light and asks me to lay in bed with her. GOOD SIGN We are cuddling and shit, she's gettin pretty worked up, heavy petting but no kissing (bad sign, no kissing I mean). She stops, she seems upset, I'm still not trying to put the moves on her, she was initiating, then she starts again, more intense, and stops. She's got "issues" obviously but this just makes me want to figure out this puzzle. I'm stupid. The next night same scenario to start with and then she kisses me
Things are gettin' pretty hot, she's getting naked, we're about to have sex... her "I think we should just be friends" WHAT THE FUCK? I tell her I disagree, she's worried it would hurt our friendship, I disagree since we just met and it was obvious from the start. She tells me that she wants me to stay in her room that night but we weren't gonna fool around anymore. I tell her I'm not mad at her but I can't just sleep beside her right now, that would be torture. From this point on her name is MINDFUCK.
So I'm kinda bummed but put it in my head that we're just friends so stop trying to woo her. We still hang out and spend most of our free time together. She starts flirting with me, she cuddles with me on the couch, holds my hand, all that shit. I'm like ok, I'll go along with this I wanna get laid, if it happens it happens. Problem in she runs hot and cold, she's either all over me or completely distant. I'm also noticing characteristics about her I really don't like which is making things a lot easier cuz it's becoming more of a physical thing but when we connect it's still great and she's a sweet person. She is also a very self absorbed person, she only wants to talk about things she likes or is interested in and will cut you off or just seems uninterested. I'm realizing she is way too self absorbed and I am getting frustrated with her, but she is sooo damned cute and when we click it feels really good. Yesterday we got in a very small fight, she mistook something I said and walked off, I said fine and kept doing what I was doing. On the way home I caught up to her at a traffic light said hi and just kept on walking home. She came back a couple hours later, asked if I was mad, I said no but I was but there's no point cuz she doesn't listen anyway. She seemed happy I wasn't mad. I went out to buy some beer (she doesn't drink which was what I thought was going to be the big obstacle, I WISH!!) and when I came back she ran up to me jumped up hugging me, wrapped her legs around me and went for a kiss but changed her mind and kissed me on the neck. She walked with me to the park where I was meeting my fiends, hung around for a little while and walked my dog home, she told me she'd still be up when I got home. Of course when I got home she was asleep but she had left her door open. I wasn't gonna get shot down again so I just went to bed after leaving her a little drawing of her and my dog in love while I was drunk and closed her door for her. Today she is COMPLETELY distant again, it seems that when she starts feeling things for me she turns herself off as some defense mechanism. Hence the name MINDFUCK. I know we'll go through this scenario many times before she leaves to go back to Portugal but I just hope 1 of these times it actually ends with sex, I'm not gonna play the head games but I will play with her body.
On another note a girl I met last fall that I really clicked with is coming back to Toronto for a pitstop and she has broken up with her whiny boyfriend. I'll have a girl to drink with and who knows? for a little while. Now how much do you wanna bet MINDFUCK gets totally jealous? Now will she move out or try to keep me away from my drinkin buddy?
Wow that was REALLY LONG, SORRY but you asked.
So what do you think? 1 bullet or 2?
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that sounds rough!