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Ok dude, just to warn you I wouldnt even trust my own advice, but since you asked Ill give it a shot. So far its been the same thing with me, the mutual friend has been there each time weve hung out(unless you count the time we were in the bathroom), so I sure the first time its just the two of us there is going to be more than a few akward moments, which I guess Im going to have to just hope I can work my way through and come out like a somewhat cool dude.

But anyways in your situation, I would try to get the mutual friend to bring another friend along one time, so you and your crush have some "semi" alone time, that way you could focus on just talking to her and you would have a way out if it started to get really bad. Or if things go well enough in your semi private conversation, and you get up the courage to ask her "out", then you still have the security of the mutual friend there if things go wrong. But from what youve told me, It seems like you definitely have somewhat of a chance, although its tough for me to say because I wasnt there. And I know its easy for me to say, but you just gotta go for it, because if you really like this chick, just keeping her around as a friend could be real torture if she finds a dude. So, its my advice that you just gotta give it a chance, just ask her to do something, just you and her, that way you can really find out how she feels, and hey man if it doesnt work at least you tryed. There have been so many girls I wished I had given it a shot with, and regretted not doing so.

Best of luck to you man, I hope it goes well for you. Thats my advice, take it if you want, but I cant be held responsible, because Im about the farthest thing from a "ladies man" you can be.

Rock

And yes, none of us are really on a softcore porn site, Im just here to discuss current events, really.