hi, so i have a new style and color hair, its plum, and i now have a cutie pie fringe, so i will post a pic asap, well assoon as i get a camera out.
been watching lost, and i think i am lost? I live on a farm, I hate it, there is nothing to do here, my feance' and i have nothing in commen anymore.
supper is followed by him falling asleep on the couch, we dont talk much unless we are fighting, or if he whants something, no not like that, but ya.
his mother rules our lives, do you know a grown man in his 30's whoes mother calls more than 5 times a day and one of those calles is to say goodnight everynight without fail.
I think sometimes it is just me, its me, i didnt have a great family life so i hate family around ahh (i am screaming) then something happened friday, this friday.
She asked about the wedding as usual, so we got talking, and, the time came up, i want a 9am wedding a morning wedding i always wanted a summers morning wedding in a garden of some sort?! so she says it must be at like 11 not 9, 9 is too early. so i jump around the subject, then i mention the brunch buffet, ohhhh no i can not have a buffet brunch, why i dont know why she doesnt give a reason, she just doesnt want a brunch, so i brush it off, then i get asked about the priest, oh for gods sake, i need to be married at a catholic church she says or she is not comming, so there goes my outdoor wedding, and i am not even catholic her son my feance' as long as i have known him 4 years, he has only gone to church for a funarel or a wedding.
for f$#K sakes she already has to be making a cake i didnt choose. why why why.
i love him but i can not anymore, i feel like i am dispointing my future if i stay. I didnt ask questions when he said he wantewd to move to a farm, that he wanted to live here, i came along no questions asked, now, now i have so many questions my brain can not put them in order of importance.
Oh god, my life is a mess.
been watching lost, and i think i am lost? I live on a farm, I hate it, there is nothing to do here, my feance' and i have nothing in commen anymore.
supper is followed by him falling asleep on the couch, we dont talk much unless we are fighting, or if he whants something, no not like that, but ya.
his mother rules our lives, do you know a grown man in his 30's whoes mother calls more than 5 times a day and one of those calles is to say goodnight everynight without fail.
I think sometimes it is just me, its me, i didnt have a great family life so i hate family around ahh (i am screaming) then something happened friday, this friday.
She asked about the wedding as usual, so we got talking, and, the time came up, i want a 9am wedding a morning wedding i always wanted a summers morning wedding in a garden of some sort?! so she says it must be at like 11 not 9, 9 is too early. so i jump around the subject, then i mention the brunch buffet, ohhhh no i can not have a buffet brunch, why i dont know why she doesnt give a reason, she just doesnt want a brunch, so i brush it off, then i get asked about the priest, oh for gods sake, i need to be married at a catholic church she says or she is not comming, so there goes my outdoor wedding, and i am not even catholic her son my feance' as long as i have known him 4 years, he has only gone to church for a funarel or a wedding.
for f$#K sakes she already has to be making a cake i didnt choose. why why why.
i love him but i can not anymore, i feel like i am dispointing my future if i stay. I didnt ask questions when he said he wantewd to move to a farm, that he wanted to live here, i came along no questions asked, now, now i have so many questions my brain can not put them in order of importance.
Oh god, my life is a mess.
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your set is just amazing
i can't wait till it goes to the front page
you have all my support, im leaving 2000 votes if it's nessesary
Some people's idea of love is to simply want to have someone around and have sex. (You look so nice and have such good taste that the vast majority of guys will be attracted to you in a second.) A better definition would be that the other person's happiness is terribly important to you and knowing they are in pain is difficult for you to bear. It can be hard at first to go along with ideas that seem wrong and still be accepting and supportive, so part of implementing this attitude has to be recognition of the fact that some questions have one right answer, but these are objectively verifiable things in the physical world. Salt lowers the freezing point of water, or diamonds are harder than sapphires, for example.
In an entirely different category are the countless subjective issues that are entirely dependent on personal taste or preference, a perfect example of which being the details of what makes for a nice wedding. Common sense will often be brought into arguments about such things but common sense is highly personal. It may be shared within families or certain groups, but it's still just opinion and perception and not verifiable objective fact.
If your fiance's idea of love is to give you an intolerably uncomfortable and unrewarding life in which your wishes mean little or nothing, then I fear that he may have less real love for you than even total strangers deserve. I hope you make sure that my fear is unjustified before you go through with this wedding. He has to know exactly how you feel before he can make any changes, so do make sure that you tell him very clearly. He will be on your side if he really loves you and I see no reason why he shouldn't. You need not worry about alienating him by speaking up because the sad situation you are walking into is very easy to find a similarly dreadful substitute for, so no fear of jeopardizing it is justifiable.
Good luck!