nirbhao

different people masturbate in different places.

that is, some people masturbate purely in their bodies, some in their fantasies, and some in their memories-- or somewhere in the range along the spectrum among those three. while it is possible to masturbate entirely somatically (e.g.: wet dream) or fantastically (e.g.: romance novel), most of us combine at least a little bit.

fantasy, if I would be so bold, could also be justifiably called a thought experiment. and I think I may be so bold considering that I'm coming up with all the terms here anyway. well, I guess I'll go ahead and give a little bit too much away about myself and say that there are times when I can't enjoy the physical, such as a long car ride with my entire family, but memories are an incredibly effective masturbation tool, and that in such instances a little thought experimentation can be very interesting.

now that I can enjoy the physical, I think I just may have a very satisfying ab exercise using my ben wa balls.