nirbhao

we have a "look to book" policy, but she looks for problems. problems are amazing. if you look, you will find them! I thought I was just being paranoid until I heard her laugh victoriously over a contract error. anyway, we have several deals with "missing stips," or very minor things we need before we will fund them. things like phone bills. it's so annoying bugging an f&i manager for a phone bill once they've already delivered the vehicle. she organizes these files by dealership, which-- whatever. it's her business. the thing is that she doesn't deal with them except when she puts the deal on the books and when we receive the missing stip. I deal with the file to try to get that missing stip, and so it is far easier for me to have them organized by date. I reorded them. bad move! she put them back. okay, so, fighting over the order of files is like fighting over whether blinds are open or shut, right? they move. in this case, it's light fighting over whether blinds are open or shut when the people aren't even in the same room at the same time. it just doesn't fucking matter. so I don't care. she put them back, fine. I can look through all twelve files to check the dates once every day. no big deal. all I do is send a little fax. but she is so mad! she radiates anger! and everything I do seems to make her more angry! I'm at a complete and total loss.