I choose to stay a unicorn for all of antiquity. If i played before you under the moon without your berkana, i would be asking and lose my purity. With Berkana, I can keep my purity and love any and or all of you forever as I have chosen and choose to be.
If I were to commit without an affirmation of In' Lakech than the seperation caused by a new reality for each of us would lead to kali of evil nature, power holding of something in view but without reach. It doesn't mean I don't love you.