Men and women can be friends if one or either of them does not get feelings for the other or each other. That's a simply answered question, It's just an easier said than done kinda of thing.
Funny quote I heard yesterday: " Plan B right now is to make Plan A work." haha ok.
Work was freezing cold. I had SIX layers on. I am tired of stupid arrogant cooworkers who think they know everything, and feel they must make a debate out of any little topic raised. I really tire of hearing these poeple's voices.
Therapy straight after. I have been hypomanic. We broke what that "looks" like for me into categories. I have to pick the top three that are clear indicators, put them in a spot where I can see them. Then if I'm wondering whether i'm in that state of mind or not, check wether I'm acting/feeling those ways.
Such as I am not sarcastic, I hate sarcasim. I mean the kinda that makes other people feel like shit. But when I'm hypomanic my sense of humour doesn't just increase increase, I get this almost biting sense of humour that can approach being just mean or sarcastic. That's not the usual Nihly. So then I know. Some nights when I've been like that before, I'd just tell my friends, "Don't worry. I'm only being witty at your expense." hehe
It sounds simple enough...perhaps it is. I don't know hahaha.
I hurt from the gym. I hung out with Crush last night. I was at the bar with some friends but I wasn't feelin it and he came and picked me up, we chilled for a bit. He's still really sweet. I think I'll wait on things. It's a good thing I didn't get wasted cuz I still have another day shift and I wouldn't be typing this right now.
But I am going to go get some breaky. So that's all you get
NIHLS
Funny quote I heard yesterday: " Plan B right now is to make Plan A work." haha ok.
Work was freezing cold. I had SIX layers on. I am tired of stupid arrogant cooworkers who think they know everything, and feel they must make a debate out of any little topic raised. I really tire of hearing these poeple's voices.
Therapy straight after. I have been hypomanic. We broke what that "looks" like for me into categories. I have to pick the top three that are clear indicators, put them in a spot where I can see them. Then if I'm wondering whether i'm in that state of mind or not, check wether I'm acting/feeling those ways.
Such as I am not sarcastic, I hate sarcasim. I mean the kinda that makes other people feel like shit. But when I'm hypomanic my sense of humour doesn't just increase increase, I get this almost biting sense of humour that can approach being just mean or sarcastic. That's not the usual Nihly. So then I know. Some nights when I've been like that before, I'd just tell my friends, "Don't worry. I'm only being witty at your expense." hehe
It sounds simple enough...perhaps it is. I don't know hahaha.
I hurt from the gym. I hung out with Crush last night. I was at the bar with some friends but I wasn't feelin it and he came and picked me up, we chilled for a bit. He's still really sweet. I think I'll wait on things. It's a good thing I didn't get wasted cuz I still have another day shift and I wouldn't be typing this right now.
But I am going to go get some breaky. So that's all you get
NIHLS
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I just enjoy their company more - no macho pretenses haha. I know what you mean though - I know I've been attracted to friends and versa the vice and yet when all is clear on boundaries and such it's never been an issue - these need to be clear.
and as for arrogant co-workers that think they know all - if they knew anything at all they would know that they don't know much.
clearly.
sarcasm is great especially online cos no-one can tell - there's no such thing as emphasis in cyber-space.
I just saw my highschool's dance concert - jazz ballet-arama, haha