nightshade2411

I don't know what to say or to ask but I had a question popped to me a couple of days ago that has been well to put it plainly bugging me out. A friend of mine from school asked me to marry his sister in law. I have never met this woman and while I saw a picture of her (which she looks cute) I just don't know. I mean I want to be nice and do it so she can stay in the states so she can be around her family but I don't know if I could marry someone I don't love. I get mixed signals from my best friend and her husband her husband saying fuck yea he'd do it and well her saying the opposite. Well honestly most of the men I talked to said do and the women say the same thing. I am so confused and honestly lonely as I live on my own. Now I'm not looking for pity or anything its just part of the story. But needless to say I'm confused on what to do about this as I have mixed feelings as well. I sort of feel like its an indecent proposal and I should say FUCK NO but then again I have never been the one who was mean to someone. I wasn't brought up that way. I don't know I guess if you have any thoughts or suggestions on this I'd be most appreciative of them.