nicefromice

To flirt
I love to flirt, I think flirting is great, as long as (of course) there are those certain boundaries / lines you don't cross. I have talked to my girlfriend about this, and we are so on the same side. We love to flirt and some people think of it as a sign of "weakness in the relationship" or something ... My girlfriend can say to her co-worker: Hey honey, and give him a pat on the cheek or shoulder (or even ass) - and no problem. I could lightly rub a girl's shoulder while talking to her and say: wow, what a nice perfume you're wearing ... and no problem.

I was just wondering, what are everybody's views on flirting? Do you have a certain way of flirting? When has the flirting gone over to something more serious? And if the two people in a committed relationship can flirt without feeling any mistrust ... does it matter what other people think?

Funny thing, semi-related to this topic, happened at work the other day. A girl I know is working temporarily there, and so I know I can "do" things and say things without offending her. So, she's behind the counter, and so am I and she starts serving a customer... I sneak upon her and start gently rubbing her ass while I'm standing beside her and the customer doesn't notice anything. But of course she knows how to react and had one hand free, so she starts gently rubbing mine... and this goes on for about 6-7 seconds and the customer goes away. We look at each other and smile, this was fun, but when we turned around there were two fellow workers in the back room watching us and with their jaws on the floor because they had seen us caressing each other's bums while working ... oh, it was so hilarious. I love those moments!!